Hello everyone my name is Denise 40 yrs old. I am an Army wife, mother of 2 daughters and a Nana to 2 beautiful boys. I have had symtoms which was always chalked up as IBS according to many doctors but was recently diagnosed with Crohns about a year and a half ago after finally seeing the right doctor and getting the right tests. I was put on steroids in the beginning and was feeling better than I had in many many years but of course I couldnt stay on them. I was taken off and put back on them a few times then finally completely weened off. My doctor finally talked me into trying Humira along with taking Welchol for diarrhea. For the most part I have been feeling ok. I do not have the aweful pains i used to have but I still feel icky. Stomache is always gurgly, feel nauseous and frequent trips to the bathroom. But recent tests have shown severe narrowing in several areas and I have surgery scheduled for Nov 5. After reading alot of these blogs I am having second thoughts about having the surgery now. I dont want to feel worse after surgery than I do now. I really dont know what to do and I think I am going to go get a second opinion. Doc didnt want to do surgery at first cause he said I am fine and feeling good but then did another upper GI and found other areas that were not there before. What do you all think? Whats better, waiting until I am really sick or do the surgery now?? HELP