This forum is amazing. I just came on to post that I have symptoms of a hemmorrhoid, but yet it's different. I can't sit, there's some blood when I wipe, I can feel a lump, the anal pain is severe, and I have lower abdominal pain. Thank you Bethy for your question and all of you for your comments. I just looked up perianal abscess. I usuallly have a hard time discussing these things. All of you make this so easy and I don't feel so alone and scared. I think I'll be calling my GI first thing tomorrow morning. Bethy, I hope you feel better soon.