Cat-a-Tonic
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This is kind of crazy. The other day, my husband went to his friend's house. He came home relatively early (he came home at about midnight, and usually when he goes over there he's there till 3 or 4 AM because they play Dungeons & Dragons until the wee hours of the morning). The next morning, he said that the reason he came home early was because he suddenly experienced a sharp pain in the LRQ (the same spot where my pain is usually located), chills, and he also got hit with a wave of nausea so bad that he vomited.
I have to explain here that my hubby does NOT vomit. We've been together for over 12 years now and as far as I can recall, he hasn't vomited once until now. At one point in college, he & I and my roommate all went out for dinner, and he and she ate the same thing and they both got food poisoning. Hubby did not vomit then, he just had diarrhea for a few hours and then was fine. Roommate, on the other hand, was vomiting all day from the same tainted food. So hubby just does not vomit, even when he's ill, so it scares me that he did when he experienced this pain.
I am hoping that it was just a virus, but he then told me that these symptoms have happened once before, a couple months ago, which is scary too. Plus, if it were a virus, I likely would have caught it, since I seem to catch every virus that goes around. I should mention that he definitely didn't have food poisoning this time since he & my brother & I all ate the same thing for lunch & dinner before hubby got sick on Saturday night, and my brother & I were fine. So anyway, it doesn't appear to be a virus or food poisoning, and I guess we're going to make a doctors appointment for him and have some bloodwork done and go from there.
You know what would just suck? If he got a quick diagnosis and I were to remain in limbo (I'm still undiagnosed). I don't want him to have IBD of course, and I sincerely hope it was just a virus or something less serious. But I think I would be really upset if he got diagnosed with IBD and I was still in diagnostic limbo, not only because I know how bad IBD is and I would feel awful for him, but honestly I would be kind of jealous and mad.
On the bright side, though, I think he now has a greater understanding of what I've been going through for the past year and a half. He said the pain was awful and of course it's been many years since he's been so nauseous that he actually vomited. If it was really a "flare", it was the quickest flare ever though - by Sunday morning he was fine and eating and shoveling snow and totally normal again. No pain or nausea or any other symptoms by the next morning.
I'm rambling, and sorry for that, and thanks if you read this all. I feel better just getting it out. Worried for my hubby and I hope he doesn't have IBD.
I have to explain here that my hubby does NOT vomit. We've been together for over 12 years now and as far as I can recall, he hasn't vomited once until now. At one point in college, he & I and my roommate all went out for dinner, and he and she ate the same thing and they both got food poisoning. Hubby did not vomit then, he just had diarrhea for a few hours and then was fine. Roommate, on the other hand, was vomiting all day from the same tainted food. So hubby just does not vomit, even when he's ill, so it scares me that he did when he experienced this pain.
I am hoping that it was just a virus, but he then told me that these symptoms have happened once before, a couple months ago, which is scary too. Plus, if it were a virus, I likely would have caught it, since I seem to catch every virus that goes around. I should mention that he definitely didn't have food poisoning this time since he & my brother & I all ate the same thing for lunch & dinner before hubby got sick on Saturday night, and my brother & I were fine. So anyway, it doesn't appear to be a virus or food poisoning, and I guess we're going to make a doctors appointment for him and have some bloodwork done and go from there.
You know what would just suck? If he got a quick diagnosis and I were to remain in limbo (I'm still undiagnosed). I don't want him to have IBD of course, and I sincerely hope it was just a virus or something less serious. But I think I would be really upset if he got diagnosed with IBD and I was still in diagnostic limbo, not only because I know how bad IBD is and I would feel awful for him, but honestly I would be kind of jealous and mad.
On the bright side, though, I think he now has a greater understanding of what I've been going through for the past year and a half. He said the pain was awful and of course it's been many years since he's been so nauseous that he actually vomited. If it was really a "flare", it was the quickest flare ever though - by Sunday morning he was fine and eating and shoveling snow and totally normal again. No pain or nausea or any other symptoms by the next morning.
I'm rambling, and sorry for that, and thanks if you read this all. I feel better just getting it out. Worried for my hubby and I hope he doesn't have IBD.