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I am having so much trouble gaining weight. I've always found it difficult, but never as hard as this. I had an ileostomy created a year ago. I still have the majority of my small intestine. I have no nutrient deficiencies (and I don't take any vitamin pills to achieve this, though I do have supplements like Ensure so I get the full range of nutrients in good doses). My stoma output is normal (it was weighed every day during my recent hospital admissions).
I spent about a month in hospital this summer to try to gain weight. It was concluded that I need far more calories than someone of my height/weight/activity level/etc. should need before I started gaining. I don't know exactly how many calories I was having, but I didn't gain weight until my intake had been upped to three meals a day, three snacks a day, and 1500 calories a day on top of all that in supplements (Ensure, etc.). I was doing no exercise. The nurses, dietician, etc., who are used to dealing with patients with extreme bowel problems and extreme anorexia - I was under a specialist nutrition team who mainly deal with weight-gain/refeeding, whatever the cause - had never seen a patient eat like I do and be so thin. The main gastro. doctor just says she doesn't believe it and is convinced I was faking my eating somehow, and that the weight loss is due to an eating disorder. I understand her scepticism to a point, but for that reason I had one-on-one supervision by a nurse or mental health worker, twenty-four hours a day, (to make sure I didn't secretly make myself sick, hide food, etc.) so I don't know why she still insists I faked the difficulties in gaining weight.
But that high intake of food led to my intestine becoming blocked and perforating, which I'm sure most of you probably read about in my posts.
Now I'm trying to gain at home, and I'm being weighed once a week by my GP. If my weight drops, they'll send me back to hospital, and I don't want that! I want to gain very slowly, on less food intake than they gave me in hospital, because my digestive system just can't take it. My GP knows what too much food did to me, but she also says it's too dangerous for me to lose any more weight. She's trying to get the consultants to come up with some kind of treatment to help my system cope but they are not forthcoming, and in the mean time I have to keep gaining! (She's agreed I don't have to see the doctor who thinks I have an eating disorder, so she's waiting to hear back from one of the others.)
My surgeon once said to me that if I drank too much liquid with an ileostomy, I would wash the food through before I could absorb everything from it. I asked one of the gastroenterologists who saw me during my weight-gain admission about this and he said this wasn't true. But I trust my surgeon far, far more than I trust the gastro.
Can anyone confirm this?! I drink a lot - I've been trying to drink more, as I find high-calorie drinks an easier way to get more calories in than extra food. But I'm at a loss. Can I not be getting all the calories I'm ingesting even with a normal stoma output? Do ileostomies generally cause malabsorption issues, even when the small intestine is intact? Or is some of the small intestine removed with every ileostomy surgery? I had a small section of my small intestine removed when they fixed the perforation, but this was after I'd already had so much trouble gaining weight during the weight-gain admission.
I can gain weight, but only when my calorie intake is so very high. I'm sure it didn't used to be this hard, and the ileostomy strikes me as the biggest thing that could have changed since previous times when I gained weight.
I'm getting quite desperate - I've been gaining, but at the rate of literally 0.1kg a week, and I'm not sure how long they'll be content with that, and if I have a stomach upset or something, it will all just be lost again. They made me gain more one week, but I only managed this by wearing a heavy jumper when I stepped on the scale! (Which I'll now have to take into account at the next weigh-in :yfrown: ). If you know any facts on this, or have any personal experiences, I'd love to know!
I spent about a month in hospital this summer to try to gain weight. It was concluded that I need far more calories than someone of my height/weight/activity level/etc. should need before I started gaining. I don't know exactly how many calories I was having, but I didn't gain weight until my intake had been upped to three meals a day, three snacks a day, and 1500 calories a day on top of all that in supplements (Ensure, etc.). I was doing no exercise. The nurses, dietician, etc., who are used to dealing with patients with extreme bowel problems and extreme anorexia - I was under a specialist nutrition team who mainly deal with weight-gain/refeeding, whatever the cause - had never seen a patient eat like I do and be so thin. The main gastro. doctor just says she doesn't believe it and is convinced I was faking my eating somehow, and that the weight loss is due to an eating disorder. I understand her scepticism to a point, but for that reason I had one-on-one supervision by a nurse or mental health worker, twenty-four hours a day, (to make sure I didn't secretly make myself sick, hide food, etc.) so I don't know why she still insists I faked the difficulties in gaining weight.
But that high intake of food led to my intestine becoming blocked and perforating, which I'm sure most of you probably read about in my posts.
Now I'm trying to gain at home, and I'm being weighed once a week by my GP. If my weight drops, they'll send me back to hospital, and I don't want that! I want to gain very slowly, on less food intake than they gave me in hospital, because my digestive system just can't take it. My GP knows what too much food did to me, but she also says it's too dangerous for me to lose any more weight. She's trying to get the consultants to come up with some kind of treatment to help my system cope but they are not forthcoming, and in the mean time I have to keep gaining! (She's agreed I don't have to see the doctor who thinks I have an eating disorder, so she's waiting to hear back from one of the others.)
My surgeon once said to me that if I drank too much liquid with an ileostomy, I would wash the food through before I could absorb everything from it. I asked one of the gastroenterologists who saw me during my weight-gain admission about this and he said this wasn't true. But I trust my surgeon far, far more than I trust the gastro.
Can anyone confirm this?! I drink a lot - I've been trying to drink more, as I find high-calorie drinks an easier way to get more calories in than extra food. But I'm at a loss. Can I not be getting all the calories I'm ingesting even with a normal stoma output? Do ileostomies generally cause malabsorption issues, even when the small intestine is intact? Or is some of the small intestine removed with every ileostomy surgery? I had a small section of my small intestine removed when they fixed the perforation, but this was after I'd already had so much trouble gaining weight during the weight-gain admission.
I can gain weight, but only when my calorie intake is so very high. I'm sure it didn't used to be this hard, and the ileostomy strikes me as the biggest thing that could have changed since previous times when I gained weight.
I'm getting quite desperate - I've been gaining, but at the rate of literally 0.1kg a week, and I'm not sure how long they'll be content with that, and if I have a stomach upset or something, it will all just be lost again. They made me gain more one week, but I only managed this by wearing a heavy jumper when I stepped on the scale! (Which I'll now have to take into account at the next weigh-in :yfrown: ). If you know any facts on this, or have any personal experiences, I'd love to know!