well, Keara, i'm in the same boat as far as Remicade.. I just can't afford it. As for surgery... well, the resection thing isn't a big deal.. it was the easiest of my ops to recuperate from.. if it's ostomy.. welll, i'm not ready for that step yet, but many on here have gone that route, and if the disease is just in the colon, it could mean a totally new/improved life (least to hear some tell it). the big question is whether bag or pouch (at least as I understand the options). to me, at 1st consideration, it seemed a no brainer.. Like, if one can go pouch, why bother with the baggies? but, I've heard some folks who've gone that route say perhaps in hindsight the bag route is more ... convenient.. Hey, who knows.. the grass is always greener. Hey, there would be a good topic for a poll, even friendly debate.
See what the 'experts' on here have to say. Anyway, what will be, will be.
If surgery is the 'best' choice, all the best. But, talk to your doctor. ask if metho, or humira, perhaps even LDN (if the doctor is willing to go that far) are options that might be explored FIRST, before the irrevocable surgery.
Hey, it never HURTS to ask... to ask 'why', or better still 'why not'.. FIRST!