In need of a rant

[Clarabell]

in need of a rant

Hi everybody
I am just on this to have a rant really.Just having a hard time rite now and everyone around dont really seem to get it!Recently ma crohns has been going thru a flare up and while a try my best to be at uni and work all the time a am meant to be there are times you will all understand it is not possible!Lately a have had days here there off and I do understand the importance of attendance I even go in in the days I really should be resting but if a feel even alittle like myself I will make the effort but no one seems to unedrstand and think you are just at it!makes me so angry just wish they understood how hard it was or live in our shoes for a few days!!!sorry just needed to get that out! clarabell

 

[DustyKat]

Oh Clarabell how awful, I wish I could do more for you. One thing I can do is send (((MEGA HUGS and CUDDLES))) your way.

:hug::ghug::hug::ghug::hug::ghug::hug::ghug:

Take care hun and look after yourself,
Dusty

 

[Dexky]

Rant away Clarabell!!! It's nice to see your beautiful smile again. Hope things get better soon. Sorry for you.

 

[merrywidow]

is there anyway you could do your course work at home?
even if it was reading books, it would stop you falling behind so much.

 

[Crohn's 35]

Hey Clarabell, I hear ya! Outsiders will never understand, think of before we had Crohns, most of us never had a clue. So venting is allowed! WE understand and we all need support every now and then. People can empathize but they will never get it. Sometimes I feel like say... have you had the stomach flu, appendicits and or kidney stones? That is how you can explain it in their lingo so they can have a clue.

:hang: relief does come, sooner or later, try to stay calm, only we pay for stressing out about others. Hugs.

 

[ameslouise]

Hi Clarabell - So sorry you are going thru such a rough time. Holding a job can be tough for a Crohnie, but add in school as well and I don't know how you can expect to do it all!

Remember that you and your health are a priority! Take it easy when you need to. Can your doctor provide some sort of documentation or sick note for you to let your professors and employer know of your condition and your limitations?

Take care of yourself! - Amy

 

[MisB]

Hi Clarabell, I've been ranting myself lately and I don't have work and school. Hang in there and do what you can, but take care of yourself. It is hard when others can't understand the pain you are going through. That's why we are here. Hope you feel better soon.

 

[Astra]

Hiya Clarabel

It's ok to have a benny!
I agree with Amy, tell your Uni tutors about your situation and get some medical certificate from the docs.
Oh, and btw, you don't have to justify yourself to anyone! remember that!
take care and chillax
lotsa luv
Joan xxx

 

[barmybev]

Hi sorry to hear your having a bad time right now,That is the trouble with these diseases because its not on the outside of the body people don't seem to understand that we are actually suffering where as if you had a broken leg, arm people would be sympathetic and more understanding I think maybe the word for these people is ignorant!

 

[Clarabell]

thankyou everyone!helps so much to have somewhere to vent to people who actually get it xxxx