hi Sylvia.. it always astounds me how easy and quick it is to put weight on, and how slow and difficult it is to lose!
i'm doing a cutting down diet right now, but for me, the minute i think 'diet' i crave naughty foods, so what i do is substitute healthier options, and try not to miss out on too many things. for example, i don't have bread any more - i have crackers (cream crackers are soft, so are those maize ones) for breakfast and lunch with various toppings on.. or i have yoghurt with or without rice flake cereal (can't tolerate milk on cereal).. i've bought a load of low calorie cereal bars to snack on, and kiddie sized boxes of raisins, low fat crisps (potato chips). for main family meals i eat whatever i cook for everyone else, usually, but i just don't have the potato or pasta or rice, or just have a tiny amount of it. i only have fully skimmed milk in tea & coffee, & drink diet coke. i also stopped having any kind of margarine or butter spread on crackers, just the topping.
i also can't exercise much, partly because i've had a few abdo operations and my stomach muscles are just rubbish.. i've also had one hernia and don't want another! also, my stamina and energy are low right now... so my options for exercise aren't great. i have a Wii Fit, and i'm trying to do half an hour every day - the step aerobic one is really good.
regarding your stoma appliance adhesive - what appliance are you using? & are you allergic to that 2nd skin type of stuff that is used in hospitals to secure cannulas?