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So I am brand new to the world of IBD...my son was literally just diagnosed last Monday. Here is a little background:
I started noticing that R was a looking a little pale and frail about 18 months ago. I wondered if he might be mildly anemic but was brushed off by our GP because he is a 9 year old boy...and because he is naturally pale.
Then nine months ago our family took a trip to Disneyworld. About 2 wks before we left DD (K - 4yrs) got sick with diarrhea. Then a week later my brother got sick with the same bug. So on our 3rd day in Florida none of us really batted an eye when R also got sick. But his symptoms were so much worse (fever...of 104...chills, extremely flushed, vertigo, vomiting, and extreme D) that we thought he must have gotten sunstroke too (DH is very susceptible to this). He was so sick that he didn't come with us to Disney for three days (he stayed with his aunt who is a nurse). Then, when he was able to come he had to go to the washroom at least every 1/2hr and literally had to sit in K's stroller in order to walk the park. Food was an absolute no...although he was drinking fluids. Being the extremely tough guy he is he insisted on going on every ride that Disney, Universal, and Sea World offered (yes even the frigging roller coasters) at least once.
When we got home we called our GP and were told that the flu could last up to six weeks in kids his age and if he still had D by then we should bring him in (at this point he was going about 5 times/day). One stool sample later----C Diff!!! AND mild anemia. GP was stumped as R hadn't been on any antibiotics in over 2 years. Order up a round of Flagyl and nothing....D persisted although samples were coming back negative for C Diff. No parasites but occult bloods were positive. GP became worried at that point since DH has a really scary family history of colon cancer and referred R to a pediatrician for further tests. Pediatrician was a whole new ball game. I got the 'pat pat' and eye rolling 'one of THOSE parents' looks. She said that the scopes that GP wanted had about an 8 month wait list. Even after I pointed out that R wasn't gaining back the 6lbs he dropped and wasn't growing. She told me that "he is still in the 50th percentile" (despite the fact that he was in the 85th 18 months ago) and that kids can taper off. I told her "that's great...but his identical twin is 3" taller in one year and about 12 lbs heavier...and they were always the same height/weight before". After every appointment she said to come back if anything changed. Well NOTHING changed...R still had D with mucous (and the occasional bloody one) about 2-3 times a day. :ybatty:
Finally last month I told her I wanted a second opinion and a referral to a pedi GI. Two weeks later it was ANOTHER dr...but this one actually took us seriously. I showed him pictures of R and T and he said that while R's bloodwork was not overly concerning the drastic difference in R's growth definitely warranted the scopes. 7 days later and R was in for endoscopy/colonoscopy. 45 min into the tests GI came out and said that R had CD. WHAT?!?!?!
R had stomach aches every other day (but not "painful"). No eye issues. No joint pain. Headaches that came and went (for which I gave him Advil...no one told me not to!!!) but were not alarming as I suffer from migraines frequently. No family history (and I mean anywhere that I can find).
We were told that R had two options--- an EN diet or Remicade. And that we would discuss those options further in clinic in a week. For now R was on a strict EN diet. That was five days ago....
So here I am. I must admit that I only understand about half of the terms used on this forum (and that half is enough to TERRIFY me).
I think that I might lose my mind...
I started noticing that R was a looking a little pale and frail about 18 months ago. I wondered if he might be mildly anemic but was brushed off by our GP because he is a 9 year old boy...and because he is naturally pale.
Then nine months ago our family took a trip to Disneyworld. About 2 wks before we left DD (K - 4yrs) got sick with diarrhea. Then a week later my brother got sick with the same bug. So on our 3rd day in Florida none of us really batted an eye when R also got sick. But his symptoms were so much worse (fever...of 104...chills, extremely flushed, vertigo, vomiting, and extreme D) that we thought he must have gotten sunstroke too (DH is very susceptible to this). He was so sick that he didn't come with us to Disney for three days (he stayed with his aunt who is a nurse). Then, when he was able to come he had to go to the washroom at least every 1/2hr and literally had to sit in K's stroller in order to walk the park. Food was an absolute no...although he was drinking fluids. Being the extremely tough guy he is he insisted on going on every ride that Disney, Universal, and Sea World offered (yes even the frigging roller coasters) at least once.
When we got home we called our GP and were told that the flu could last up to six weeks in kids his age and if he still had D by then we should bring him in (at this point he was going about 5 times/day). One stool sample later----C Diff!!! AND mild anemia. GP was stumped as R hadn't been on any antibiotics in over 2 years. Order up a round of Flagyl and nothing....D persisted although samples were coming back negative for C Diff. No parasites but occult bloods were positive. GP became worried at that point since DH has a really scary family history of colon cancer and referred R to a pediatrician for further tests. Pediatrician was a whole new ball game. I got the 'pat pat' and eye rolling 'one of THOSE parents' looks. She said that the scopes that GP wanted had about an 8 month wait list. Even after I pointed out that R wasn't gaining back the 6lbs he dropped and wasn't growing. She told me that "he is still in the 50th percentile" (despite the fact that he was in the 85th 18 months ago) and that kids can taper off. I told her "that's great...but his identical twin is 3" taller in one year and about 12 lbs heavier...and they were always the same height/weight before". After every appointment she said to come back if anything changed. Well NOTHING changed...R still had D with mucous (and the occasional bloody one) about 2-3 times a day. :ybatty:
Finally last month I told her I wanted a second opinion and a referral to a pedi GI. Two weeks later it was ANOTHER dr...but this one actually took us seriously. I showed him pictures of R and T and he said that while R's bloodwork was not overly concerning the drastic difference in R's growth definitely warranted the scopes. 7 days later and R was in for endoscopy/colonoscopy. 45 min into the tests GI came out and said that R had CD. WHAT?!?!?!
R had stomach aches every other day (but not "painful"). No eye issues. No joint pain. Headaches that came and went (for which I gave him Advil...no one told me not to!!!) but were not alarming as I suffer from migraines frequently. No family history (and I mean anywhere that I can find).
We were told that R had two options--- an EN diet or Remicade. And that we would discuss those options further in clinic in a week. For now R was on a strict EN diet. That was five days ago....
So here I am. I must admit that I only understand about half of the terms used on this forum (and that half is enough to TERRIFY me).
I think that I might lose my mind...