I'm with you. My 12 year old was diagnosed last summer. I have 2 younger ones that have been on watch - but in the last few weeks really spiraled. Our GI did not rush to scopes, but now ordered on the one - as lost too much weight. Will see on the other when see GI.
I'm hoping that its multiple food intolerances and/or lesser disease (was the case with another child that was scoped but not IBD). We have eliminated a lot of foods and that clearly helps - with one child maybe enough, the other helps but still pain.
The stress of this situation is really crazy.
My Crohn's kid, this month we nicknamed last one standing and is doing amazing right now, which is a saving grace.