aww jeff sorry you feel like such shit =/
from your pics, i dont really see anything wrong. but mind you, i dont really have a good judge on things, i dont really know what a normal stoma looks like. i mean i do, but eh its hard for me to judge that.
im hoping it is not infected for you. but IF it is, jeff you will feel 54928340 times better when they release the infection. its amazing, if your pain is related to that, then it will disappear right away.
ALSO perc can massively slow down your system! any narcs can. i have never really had this problem with them but im sure it differs from person to person.
you might be in a bit of a vicious cycle, pain, narcs, slow down your system making mopre pain, you see?
as far as having to poo from your butt, this still happens to me quite a bit. it is SO much better than pre-surgery or even right after surgery, but i DO still get cramps just as if my colon was pushing poo around.
do you have a lot of mucous coming out?
hahah cindy, the reason your stomie is huge compared to ours is cause you have a colo! right? dont worry, youre not a mutant
jeff i hope they figure something out for you at vandy!