Hey MKE! Okay, here's my ritual. It's a bit OCD--but it works! I put the flange and the seal on a medium-set heating pad. Then I take my totally naked shower (bliss!). After drying off, I then put 2 kleenexes around my stoma to super-duper dry the skin. Then I apply a very thin layer of calamine lotion around the stoma and surrounding skin. Then I use a layer of stoma powder, spray with barrier spray, another thin squirt of powder followed by the spray. Then I take a kleenex and wipe off the stoma. Then I smash the nice warm barrier ring and really push it around the stoma and skin. Then I put the flange over it and hold for about 30 seconds. Done! I use 2 piece Hollister. THEN afterwards I put on my lycra big undies for a while to really hold things. After I am ready to put on regular clothes I then put on "regular" undies. I know it sounds craaaaazy--but my ritual works for me! I change everything on Wednesdays and Sundays. I think I've had 3 leaks in 11 months--and the leaks were early on following surgery. Maybe this is helpful to you--good luck. Snap:ysmile: