Overwhelmed...irritated

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okay well....i have had it with the drs in this area. i am going to lose total and complete self control one of these days in them. between them not wanting to help madasin and just simply not caring because she is as they put it "to complicated" and them dismissing the fact that my 9 month olds heart rate is down into the 60s at night.....well lets just say the last conversation between the pediatricians nurse and i was not a nice one. i have warned them that if something happens to my children it is NOT going to be a good situation for them....i WILL do WHATEVER it takes to make sure I have there lisence. and they NEVER practice medical again!!!!!! of course they just do NOT care. truthfully...if you are going to be a dr. then you should be in it for more than just the money. they should actually have some form of care and compassion for there patients. everyone should be a somebody instead of just another body. it really is pathetic! i swear it was a special with crackerjack boxes and bubble gum machines in which they ended up with a medical lisence. i can guarantee if it were there child going through what madasin is or there childs whose heart rate was low....they would not be brushing it off as if it were no big deal. IF THEY DO NOT WANT TO DEAL WITH A SITUATION.....OF IT IS JUST FLATOUT BEYOND THERE KNOWLEDGE THEY SHOULD JUST HAVE THE DECINCY TO SAY SO...SO THE PROPER CARE CAN BE FOUND ELSEWHERE. unfortunaltly there is NO other ped. in this area who will see them because they already have one in the area!!!!!! THESE DRS ARE SO FAR BEYOND PATHETIC I DIDNT THINK IT WAS POSSIBLE i am so worried and so scared for the both of them. i dont know what to do or where to turn next. i feel so bad like i am failing them becuase i just dont know waht to do to help them. i have tried all i know to do and im stumped. i just want to take there pain away and carry it upon me. i want to be reassured that they will be okay. i worry so much. i am so scared. I just dont know!!!!! :grumpy::grumpy::ymad::voodoo:
 
I am so sorry you are still having such a hard time. Have you thought about contacting your local media? They usually have reporters that deal with stories like this and in the process it gets the word out and maybe someone who sees it will have some ideas on how to get help. Another choice - you local senate representative. Get Congress involved. They are all into this new health reform that maybe if you present Madasin's story to your local representative, they may be able to help. My sister's first husband was in a nursing home at the age of 43 with severe illness. The facility started giving my sister a hard time on some issues because my brother-in-law was delusional and they really didn't want to deal with him. She contacted the state authorities and everything was taken care of very quickly. I wish I could do something for you. I had to watch my 19 year old daughter suffer over one weekend with kidney stones and it broke my heart. I cannot even begin to imagine the anguish this is causing all of you. And poor Maddie is just too young to understand. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. Send an email, do research for other options in your area, anything at all. You are in my prayers daily. You have my number, if you ever wish to talk, please call me. Or if you want, we can chat on facebook. Something is going to break through very soon. Just don't give up. Lots of :hug::hug: and :kiss::kiss: to you all.
 
Hey guys,

It sucks that you are still going through all this. I agree with Bev about contacting the appropriate government officials. I don't know your system there but I imagine what Bev has suggested is similar to going to our Minister of Health and/or the Health Care Complaints Commission.

Thinking of you, :hug:
Dusty
 
I can also get you contact information for the NYS Department of Health......I happen to know quite a few people there.....it really SUCKS that you are having such a hard time with doctors.......
 
thank you all so much. you guys are amazing.
Bev- you have done so much already. you are doing more than enough just by being such a wonderful person and friend. I really like the suggestion on going to senate. i will look into that deffinatly
pasobuf-thank you thank you!
 
Kelley I have to admire your strength for all that you have been through with such a sick little girl. I have a feeling she will get help soon. Hang in there, we know you are doing all you can for Madasin. Not easy for a parent to see your child ill. Take care, keep us posted on her. Hugs!
 
thank you pen! That means a lot! i appreciate it.
pasobuf...thank you thank you thank you!!!!! i am def starting on this now
 

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