Hi cat! First I want to tell you I'm so sorry your in pain, and having a hard time of it. Really. I've had 9 surgeries (ugh!) and they have all had different recovery time for me (sorry!). Mostly I just weather the storm, come what may. Rest alot, eat a little, try to get some good supplements that is easy to break down and absorb-able, and as for the food, I did allot of broths, liquids, was really careful about food (came from fear of tearing the surgical sites) soft potatoes, cream of anything (LOL). I figured out that even though I had the crohns spots removed, it didn't help the general symptoms as in BM's, cramping, gas pains and on and on. Right?!
I had one epidural and had migraines and back pain for a couple of months afterward, but those too passed (weathered that storm too! LOL)
Mostly, I want to tell you hang in there! Know that one day your going to wake up, get out of bed (not having to run to the bathroom either! lol), go about your day, and in the middle of it all its going to occur to you that, wow my crohns isn't kicking my butt today- cool! Then, maybe you'll think, like I do now, that I've got crohns but crohns doesn't have me!
Take care, rest, recoup, and always...get better cat! ;-)