Hi Melo! I'm right there with you...it's hard to wait when you're ready to try for a baby. I'm on 6mp, not remicade, and I am at a very good point in my health right now, thanks to the 6mp. Even though it is rated as a class D drug which says that it can be harmful to a developing baby, there is really no hard evidence to support that it is harmful. The reason for this is that large drug studies are not done on pregnant women and the drug companies give it the class D rating to cover their butts. There have been a few very small studies of data collected on pregnant women who just happen to be on the 6mp drug and the evidence is there is only a very slight increase of preterm and low birth wieght as opposed to "normal", healthy pregnant women. Those are only small studies but it is at least something to go by.
Anyway, after much deliberation, my doctors and I have decided that the benefit to staying on the 6mp and keeping me healthy is greater than the risk 6mp poses. My doc says Healthy Mom=Healthy Baby.
Of course I've been rambling on about 6mp when you're on the Remicade but I got the impression from the fetal maternal specialist that it was actually even safer than the 6mp (because we talked about alternatives) and they've had lots of pregnancy cases that were on Remicade. In the end, it's up to you to decide what is best for you. The most important thing is for you to be in remission.
I have spent a good part of a year researching this because I knew I wanted to plan for a family soon and so I've been working closely with all my doctors to get me to that point. And it is so hard when there is so much contradictory information out there. I wish you the best of luck!