Amanda, I was diagnosed with Crohns 24 yrs ago @the age of 28. There wasn't a lot of "good" treatments back than. When I suffered a flare-up last year my new GI suggested Remicade after the Pentasa didn't help. I read all the side affects and honestly, it scared the living poop out of me. All I could think of was why would I want to take something that could cause more problems then I all ready have.
It took me quite a few months to decide what to do. That led me to this Forum back in October and because of the information and great raves of Remicade by members of this forum it made me understand that Remicade was the best treatment to try. I have not had any regrets since I started it in Febuary and I have been enjoying the best I have felt in many years. I know there are risks as with any treatment or meds, but the serious side effects are very rare and the good really does out wiegh the bad.
As Dexky suggested, read thru the Remicade club thread. Lots of information.
Good luck, Amanda. I hope you find the right treatment for you and that you can enjoy remission like I am.