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So my Operation date has been set for the 23rd of December 2013 been waiting a long time.
i had an ileostomy surgery back in February this year, and was told i was having a temporary stoma to help me heal from everything that crohns has given me. i was due to have surgery in august but for personal reasons i asked to postpone this. i am currently at university and finish my first semester in less than 2 weeks.
so my question is..(for those who have had experiece of a reversal) whats it's like and what should i be expecting...
here's what i have in mind... relatively minor surgery in comparison to the 2 major ops i had back in Feb resulting in a month's stay in hospital. so a week's stay in hospital? what is the pain like? surely cant be worse than I've had it before; especially now that i am healthy.
im expecting my bottom to hurt since its not been used in a long time..just gotta deal with that i suppose.. takes time to get used to bowel movements...will i ever go back to what is perceived as 'normal', i hope so even if it takes a few months to settle in.
My biggest concern is the wound/scar ... what is it going to look like... is it just a hole? surely it cant just heal like a needle hole? what will it look like after it has healed. it has taken me sometime to accept the fact that i have my current scars.
Also University restarts on the 6th of January 2014...what are the chances of me recovering in time for that...or should i just take a week or 2 of and rest?
should i be scared? or am i overreacting?
thanks
i had an ileostomy surgery back in February this year, and was told i was having a temporary stoma to help me heal from everything that crohns has given me. i was due to have surgery in august but for personal reasons i asked to postpone this. i am currently at university and finish my first semester in less than 2 weeks.
so my question is..(for those who have had experiece of a reversal) whats it's like and what should i be expecting...
here's what i have in mind... relatively minor surgery in comparison to the 2 major ops i had back in Feb resulting in a month's stay in hospital. so a week's stay in hospital? what is the pain like? surely cant be worse than I've had it before; especially now that i am healthy.
im expecting my bottom to hurt since its not been used in a long time..just gotta deal with that i suppose.. takes time to get used to bowel movements...will i ever go back to what is perceived as 'normal', i hope so even if it takes a few months to settle in.
My biggest concern is the wound/scar ... what is it going to look like... is it just a hole? surely it cant just heal like a needle hole? what will it look like after it has healed. it has taken me sometime to accept the fact that i have my current scars.
Also University restarts on the 6th of January 2014...what are the chances of me recovering in time for that...or should i just take a week or 2 of and rest?
should i be scared? or am i overreacting?
thanks