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Today marks seven years of DS being diagnosed with Crohn's and Celiac. I'm not sure I've ever shared his full story? Read on, if interested. Maybe my mistakes can helps someone else.

In retrospect, the signs started in 1st grade/2nd grade. He went from being one of the tallest and biggest kids in his Kindergarten class to the absolute smallest. His pediatrician made note of this and we were "watching". No other symptoms aside from lack of growth.

The summer before third grade he had an explosive bout of diarrhea in public. After that the stomach aches started, but no other episodes of diarrhea. School started and DS kept missing the school bus home because he was always in the bathroom when it was time to go. I took him to his ped again who referred us to a GI. Of course I had done some research and was prepared for Celiac. It made sense and blood work indicated it. I ruled out Crohn's because it sounded nasty and he didn't have the classic symptoms listed on all the websites. Within a couple of weeks he had scopes done and afterward his GI said everywhere the scopes touched his bowel wall, it bled. Hmm... bleeding bowel walls is not a Celiac symptom. A week later we got the double diagnosis and our world turned upside down.

The day of the scopes, DS went gluten free and we had a brand new boy within three days. It. Was. Amazing. He put on a crazy amount of weight and started growing again. His GI at the time (we're on #3 now), decided not to treat him for Crohn's since he was doing so great. Mistake number one!

All was well for almost three years and we didn't give Crohn's much thought. The summer after fifth grade, he started throwing up and we assumed it was gluten. As the summer progressed the vomiting got worse and worse, to the point where it was several times a week. His GI wasn't able to get him in for months, so we switched to GI #2 who immediately ordered an MRE. Hello, stricture! Most likely due to cycles of inflammation from the lack of treatment by GI #1.

GI #2 prescribed Pentasa, pred, low res diet, liquid diet for a bit, yada, yada, yada. This went on for almost two years. Again, he fell off the growth charts, missed a ton of school, and wasn't doing well. GI #2 was very, very anti-surgery. The only thing he wanted to do was add 6MP, to which my momma gut was saying "that doesn't feel right". Possibly mistake #2, but we later found out that class of drugs (Aza) did nothing for him anyway.

After a 14 hour vomiting marathon in 7th grade (and a significantly diminished quality of life), I took him to the ER for dehydration. We talked to GI #3 who was on call, a surgeon, and his radiologist and decided he needed surgery. They were able to determine the stricture was all scar tissue and only 3 mm in diameter. Yes, millimeters. Normal small bowel is three CENTIMETERS, hence the vomiting - no where to go but up.

Surgery and recovery went well. Again, significant weight gain and growth afterward, but still nothing more than Pentasa. He flared with classic symptoms three months later and started Azathioprine. He spent six months on Aza with minor, but not significant relief. Levels testing showed it should have been working, but with his intermediate TPMT, his GI was hesitant to change much... until the abscess showed up. Ultrasound showed there was also an internal fistula and he landed in the hospital for the third time that year. That night he started Remicade. He left with a PICC line and two more weeks of IV antibiotics.

He's been on Remicade and in clinical remission for two years now. Last spring we had his levels tested due to fatigue and loss of appetite and at eight weeks he had zero Remi in his body. He was bumped up to six weeks and 7.5mg/kg and has been doing well at that level. Blips here and there, but generally, doing well.

And here we are seven years later. Happy Celicrohnisversary!

Things I've learned:
- Crohn's doesn't go away.
- Celiac is annoying.
- Caregivers REALLY need to educate themselves.
- It's okay to change GI's.
- J-Tips are awesome.
- Kids are amazing creatures.
- Outside the Forum, no one likes to talk about poop.
- Meds are needed.
- Photos will show the changes you don't see day to day.
- MRE's suck.
- Pediatric and adult Crohn's are two different worlds.
- Anger is okay.
- Moms need sleep.
- I would do anything for a cure.

... the end.
 
... and I need to add - THANK YOU!! To all the friends here on the Crohn's Forum. You're the only ones who understand all this.
 
Mehita, what a story and what a lot of hassle you have had and your child. Love n support coming your way , hope all stays good..
No poop aint best tolerated outside of here lol. Thats why i bring it up loads !! I like to see them squirm lol. They ask i tell in all its glory. :) best wishes n hugs ..
 
Thank you for sharing your son's story; I think it will help a lot of people who come to this forum looking for advice and answers. (And wow--your son and family have been through so much!) My daughter's symptoms also started when she was 7, and she wasn't diagnosed for 5 years. I still wonder all the time how things might be different if she'd been treated aggressively from the start.
 
Pdx. Oh indeed who knows but i wish it was easier n quicker to dx it. That way maybe we could be saved a lot of trouble,pain n anguish in our lives. Love n support to you too n best wishes ..
 
Thank you for sharing this story. A lot of it is hitting home as we face some upcoming important decisions re meds. Thanks to all who share on this board, as a mostly lurker I can assure you that your efforts do not go unnoticed and they are incredibly helpful.
 
Thanks, too, for sharing your story. I'm glad you finally found the right GI. We loved our first one, like this one (3rd) now too.
 
What an awesome summery. Of course only mother's to ibd'ers can appreciate that.:redface:
y'all have gone thru so much. Your a wonderful mom and your doing a great job!:)

So here's a question. What's a j-tip? Sorry if I missed it.
 
Thanks so much for posting that.Being only just past a year from diagnosis with our daughter I look down the road and really wonder what, how, and when will Crohns appear next.
One thing you said really resonated - that you dismissed the idea of Crohn's because it sounded so nasty. I did the same. I had a book about crohn's and UC and skipped the section on crohns after reading the overview. Little did I know what the scopes would show in mere weeks. Same bleeding, friable colon wall that you described. Gi had to stop the procedure to avoid risk of perforation.
We've had med bumps along the way but ended up doing a top down therapy approach with biologics. I wonder how different her road will be from your son. She is functioning well and lives a mostly normal day to day. But so did your son for years before things ballooned. Supposedly she's in remission however she still has sketchy lab results and vitamin and mineral deficiency. she doesn't have a regular appetite and drinks a lot of ensure. I think to myself, is there scar tissue building up in there ?
Anyway, it's good to get some wisdom from "Down the road."
As for poop, even the ibd nurse was apologetic for asking us to collect a sample! Lol, she was new.
 
Pilgrim: You can't think to much about the what if's. You sort of know they are going to happen. It is just a matter of when. Just try to enjoy the good times and sleep with one eye open. I take heart in the fact that now we have a dx and I know what to look for. There is no way my child will get as bad as there were when dx' because now I know better!

Looks like O is dealing with some inflammation. We had an awesome three plus year run and in that time two new drugs came out. So if this inflammation is a loss of response oh well lets move on.

It must be so difficult with one so young...so much more time to worry about. Hang in there mama!
 
Thanks for sharing your story. It gives a lot of strength to the mom's whose kids have been diagnosed recently and are trying to find the right medications.
 
We had an awesome three plus year run and in that time two new drugs came out.

Great comment! A true reason to not worry too much about the 'what ifs' and just enjoy today! I have lots of hope that there will be better and better treatments in the coming years! :thumright:
 
http://jtip.com/product_overview.html

It's a numbing "blast" that is prescribed. It almost looks like a syringe, but a blast of air (lidocaine?) comes out instead and immediately numbs the area under it. They use it for DS just before inserting IV's at his infusion. He doesn't feel a thing.

Thanks
Grace had something like that at her first or :shifty:was it second scope. It made a popping noise. It worked!:biggrin: Her Remicade nurse uses a numbing spray that works well also.
 
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