I got the bag back in April, my original chron's diagnosis was in 1991...
You will have to tie me down and force me to give it up. I LOVE MY BAG!!!
The bag is sposed to be temporary but there is a chance it is permanant. I went in the er with what I thought was a boil and found out it was a fistula, they couldnt do a colonoscopy because of the rectal stenosis so a CT SCAN was done which showed my colon was communicating with parts of the body it shouldnt have been.
I was given 60 mg of prednisone, pain meds, plus my psych meds, I was put on the magic two, (Cypro and Flagyl)
The surgery went fine untill they tried to wake me up in recovery.. I will share that in the my story section..
My point is, after 20 years of discomfort, diareeah, constipation, etc... this bag gives me freedom to do what I want, It is easy to maintain once you get the handle of it.
NO ONE knows you have it unless you tell them... when I empty it, I just kneel infront of the toliet and have everything within reach... the toliet is cleaner than if I had diareah or etc..
Changing the bag is even easier...
I had an appt today with my Gastroenterologist and he said in August he wants to do a colonoscopy to look at the colon and if everything is ok he said we can plan for the reversal...
I told him that I was keeping the bag.. he said that was fine, a lot of people decide to keep it once they have it.
Yes you are only 20, and having the bag now might not be permanant, but at least you will be giving your intestines a break and allowing them to heal.
I was diagnosed in 91, I was in my 20's, I had this negative image of the bag but now I wish I would have had to have it years ago...