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This text just through from Andrea's brother

Today's meeting wasn't to do with Andrea's discharge - early pathology reports on her colon have shown cancer.
It appears to be at the high end ? where the scope hasn't been able to reach recently due to inflammation.
We've been told at best it's stage 1, at worst stage 2.
Andrea is having a full MRI and lymph biopsies tomorrow.
They are hoping it's been confined to her colon and that it's already all been removed.
She's been moved to a side room for tonight and is on a mission to get as much info from her IBD nurse and process all this - as of yet no tears, just sheer anger.
We will beat this!
Julien

Words can't express how I feel about this, I feel sick to the very pit of my stomach. It's knocked me for 6, so imagine how Andrea must feel.
I hope and for the first time, I pray, that this isn't so, and that everything will be ok.
Love you Andrea xxxxx
 
Oh gosh! At least it's a relatively early stage, that's a positive sign.

Hopefully they got it all out already. Thoughts and healing energy are with her. I know she is a strong lady with lots of love and support.

Andrea - We are here for you with love and support and anything else we can offer.
 
Oh no, and she had just started to feel a bit more positive.
Andrea, I really,really hope the scans show that everything is gone and your nodes etc are clear, you deserve a bit of good luck.
Thinking of you and your family
LMH
 
Andrea had just texted me the news, but she wanted it kept quiet for now!!

Poor sweet girl. Lets hope they got all the cancer with the colon. Prayers happening here for our Welshy.

Misty
 
I can't believe that I'm reading this.
I am shocked and saddened by this news and send all my warmest wishes and love to you at this difficult time Andrea.
I really hope that everything was taken away with the op and that you are now clear of it all
Keep strong and take care of yourself
My thoughts are with you more than ever

Sam x
 
Oh Welshy my heart goes out to you hun. :hug:

I hope and pray more than anything that all was removed during your surgery. Sending you positive and healing thoughts and all the luck in the world with your scan.

Always in my thoughts Welshy. xxxx

Take care mate, :wub:
Dusty
 
I've spoken to Andrea, she's bearing up.
She was worried about me! True spirit that girl!

Andrea is fine about me posting. No problem
 
Andrea, you are in my prayers, sweetie. Keep resting and recovering. Hugs from Andi (another Andrea).
 
i can't believe this news either... Andrea pm'd me only this morning with such hope and positivity in her words.... it's just too cruel that she's been brought down again with this...

Andrea i am thinking of you honey - i don't know what else to say - just, be strong, and we're all sending very strong wishes that all will be ok for you. xxxxx
 
Oh Andrea, so sorry to hear this news. Like everyone else here, I will keep you in my thoughts and I really hope it was confined to the colon. Hopefully being stage 1 or 2 means a better prognosis for you - sounds like at least they caught it early. Thinking of you and sending lots of happy thoughts your way!

Joan, thanks for updating us. And how sweet that she was worried about how you were taking the news! Now that's friendship!
 
Totally gutted by this!
Andrea I don't do the praying either but in this case i will give it a go!
You are one awesome lady. You've won so many battles i am SURE you will win the war!
Love Marie x
 
I am so sad to read this update. I am hoping that every bit of it got taken out with surgery. I am thinking about you and will be praying for you also.
 
Awww that's awful news and must of been a shock to hear.

On a bright side, I knew a guy with UC that got colon cancer when he was only in his 30's. He made a full recovery, so here's hoping that Andrea will have the same outcome!

I have my fingers crossed and wish her all the best.
 
:hug:Hey Andrea, you are in my thoughts and prayers, sending over my angels again to keep you company, hang in there sweetie, you know I am always there for you!
 
Hi Andrea,
I just want to send my good wishes. I hope they got it all with your colon. Good luck!!!
 
Andrea,
I am in tears for you right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you in hopes that they have removed it all and hoping you have a speedy recovery.

Big Hug,
 
Oh, Andrea, my friend. I am so sorry for this frightful news and am shedding tears for you now and how you must be feeling.

I am not a praying type, but am praying for you and that all of this comes out very positive for you.

Love you and please hang in there. We're all rooting for you!

xo xo - ames
 
Hang in Andrea :) I am thinking of you and also sending positive thoughts your way!
You can do this!!!
Wendy
 
Andrea, sending wishes for lots of little things to make you smile and make each day just a little easier. Take good care.
 
I'm so sorry to hear this but I'm thinking positive thoughts for you Andrea :hug:

Keep your chin up and hopefully all these thoughts and wishes for you will make their mark
 
Oh so sorry to see this Andrea!! Hopefully, they've caught it early and the prognosis is good.
 
Update..

Hi all,Thought I should drop in and give you all a quick update..
Firstly, I'M HOME!:) Yes, they have agreed that I could come back and get some rest in my own bed. Not feeling too bad considering all that's going on. The Ileo's behaving, we're still not the 'best' of friends but are working on getting there. I have a lot to be grateful to 'it' for- had it not been for the surgery, then hell knows how long the cancer would have continued without being noticed? It really is a love/hate relationship. BUT- on a happier note, whilst being in hospital, and having some good springtime weather, I have been able to go outside with family and friends for a coffee (and endless supply of cupcakes), without having to look for the loo. It's been a hard habit to break, even this morning whilst preparing to leave hosp I did think will I make it home without the need for the loo? Of course, my loo is now permanently stuck to my side, so I can eat away quite happily. Nice thought with Summer on it's way.
I'm due back at hosp on Monday for bloods, check up and hoping to have my stiches removed. The wounds are looking good, no sign of any infections. Stoma nurse thinks they will leave 'minimal' scarring. Then Weds it's out patients with both my surgeon and then gastro and oncologist to discuss the future. I live in hope that it's already been removed, and that my biopsies all come back clear. If that's not the case, then I'm told we're heading towards chemo (at least I've had 9 months 'practice' with 6MP). I can't say I'm scared anymore, I feel as prepared for whatever outcome is discussed Weds. For me, the Colectomy was a far scarier process. I'm not sure how I should feel, if there's a right way or a wrong way, but right now, the fight mode has kicked in and I AM BLOODY DETERMINED that it will not win, and better still, maybe it's already lost!
Thank you all so much for the pm's, texts, prayers and best wishes all left here. They really do mean so much. I'm not too sure how much I will be around for the next few days, but will be sure to drop by and update as and when I can- if not, then my PA Joan will do so!!:ylol:
Thanks again, wishing you all a happy and healthy weekend,
And xx
 
Welsh-bird said:
I AM BLOODY DETERMINED that it will not win, and better still, maybe it's already lost!
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I don't know if there's a right or wrong way to feel either but I'm glad to see you've chosen this way!! You've been through so much, what's one more little hurdle!! Soldier on Andrea!!
 
So good to hear from you especially with your fighting talk!
I have been thinking of you a lot this week and hoping that things will be much better for you in the very new future. It is fantastic that you are now having such positive thoughts it must be such a tough time for you.
We do want to hear your updates whatever they are and however you deliver them (thanks Joan!)
Lots of love and best wishes
Sam x
 
As someone who has recently been diagnosed with cancer myself, I wish you the very best and a speedy recovery.You WILL beat this.
 
Debbie said:
As someone who has recently been diagnosed with cancer myself, I wish you the very best and a speedy recovery.You WILL beat this.
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Dear Debbie and Andrea thinking of you both and sending you lots of love xxxx
 
I am so glad that you are home and able to rest comfortably. I am hoping and praying that every bit of cancer was removed during the surgery. It is good to hear that you have a fighting spirit in you and that you are determined that it will not win! Thinking about you and wishing you the best :)
 
Andrea - Great to read your post and with such positive thoughts and a fighing attitude. Of course you will beat this, DUH!!!!

You are right that your ostomy did lead to good things in finding the cancer. So you must give it a proper name, like "The Detective" or something cool like that.

And what.... not one crack to Joan about spilliing the beans on your family knickname?????

Thinking of you lots. Please keep us posted on path results, etc. We are all pulling for you. I, for one, am really hoping for a big party where all of us can get together and celebrate once you are delcared cancer-free! I hope it is soon.

Until then, I will be saving up my frequent flyer miles!!!! xo xo xo - Ames
 
Welshy!,

It's so great to hear from you! Man oh man you are inspiration mate and you are going to beat this hands down.

Ahahaha, good one Amy, "The Detective" and if it makes lots of noises it could be "The Singing Detective". Come on your a Pom, you know what I'm talking about!

I know you are going to keep fighting hun and I'll be right there with you every step of the way.

Loads of love, :wub:
Dusty xxxxxxxx
 
I have it on good authority that the champagne is flowing at Andrea's house as we speak. I asked her personally to chill it for me after all. I also believe there was a Chinese delivery as well. Sadly I think they will eat it all before I get there!

Of COURSE she will beat this. Of COURSE they got it all with the removal of the colon. There simply is no other option. If they didnt get it all, I shall personally send some serious chili peppers to kill the rest of the bloody cancer stuff off. Nothing can withstand some of my chili peppers, as my colon or lack thereof can attest to!

Andrea will kick cancers ass...and she WILL TAKE NAMES...and by god it wont DARE talk back!! She is Andrea...hear her ROAR!!!! (the welsh actually sing alot...but dont tell her I told you so...shhhhhhh)
Misty
 
I just wanted to check in with you, Andrea. I'm praying for you, sweetie.
 
Thinking of you Andrea and hoping for the best possible outcome! I love your fighting spirit !! Hang in there :)
 
Hi Andrea, and thanks for your updates, amazing post and inspirational attitude :worthy: Take it easy, don't overdo it but do enjoy yourself :hug:

This is a great post :thumright:

Terriernut said:
Of COURSE she will beat this. Of COURSE they got it all with the removal of the colon. There simply is no other option. If they didnt get it all, I shall personally send some serious chili peppers to kill the rest of the bloody cancer stuff off. Nothing can withstand some of my chili peppers, as my colon or lack thereof can attest to!

Andrea will kick cancers ass...and she WILL TAKE NAMES...and by god it wont DARE talk back!! She is Andrea...hear her ROAR!!!! (the welsh actually sing alot...but dont tell her I told you so...shhhhhhh)
Misty
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Aw mate,

All the very best with the coming few weeks.

You hang on in there and fight like crazy. . . everyone (as you see here) is right behind you.

Massive hugs

Bruscar
 
Morning all and thanks again for the well wishes.
Tomorrow is results day, and to say I'm nervous is an understatement! Feel so sick this morning, but putting it all down to nerves. Apart from sedating myself until tomorrow morning- any ideas out there on how to control this anxiety?
x
 
deep breathing, rent some comedies (or get netflix), invite friends over, play some on-line games either by self or with someone, listen to relaxing music, etc
thought I would start things off :)

My thoughts are with you Andrea! Please keep us posted and positive vibes are being sent your way
Wendy
 
Thanks Wendy- was hoping that Brad would call by and take my mind off thing's but alas he's not available!
An afternoon of chocolate and chick flics awaits- just wished that this Ileo wasn't so new or I would be out running. Always good for reducing the stress!
 
You can try distraction, but I'm guessing that you are gonna be like a cat on a hot tin roof regardless. I would be.

It raining there isnt it? Otherwise I'd say take a walk if possible, even a short one. But I know you have a bad cold as well.

See, the medication route is sounding better isn't it? A nice long nap on the sofa might do the trick!

:kiss::hug::kiss::hug::kiss::hug:
Misty
 
Misty, yes the weather's c**p today. I guess if all else fails, I still have my thesis for my Masters to fall back on. Boy, do I lead an exciting life! Anyone out there knowing much about German Foreign Policy 1933-39, please feel free to help me out!
 
LOL....umm..sorry, cant help you there with the thesis...

running on the other hand... LOVE TO RUN - wish I could as well...no better high than a runners high!!

I wish I lived close by. We don't know each other well but I would come by and we could get into some good trouble!!
Are you artistic at all? Maybe you could paint or draw or ... I dont know.. I think Misty is right about it being all about distraction. Movies are good that way :) Did you see Eat Pray Love?
I will be thinking about you :)
 
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Put your favourite music on and SING VERY LOUDLY!! Works every time :)
Seriously tho, good luck tomorrow. Really rooting for you here!
Love Marie x
 
Hi Andrea,
Sorry i didnt reply sooner, i was a bit shell shocked as to what i was reading! I really really hope its been good news for you today :)
Thinking of you
Vicky
x
 
Andrea,
Just thought I would let you know that you are one amazing lady. Hang in there.
My thoughts and prayers are with you

Big Hug
 
I am hoping with all I got that it's all already gone! Thinking of you.

Keep yourself distracted. The arcade on this forum is a good place to start. Books, movies, napping, this forum, call a family member or friend and say you want to talk about everything ELSE.

*big hug*
 
Today has been the longest ever..I feel like I'm waiting to go to the gallows, and I'm BLOODY SCARED! I hate not being in control, but this is way out of my hands now. 10.15am can't come quickly enough...
It's going to be another long night x
 
Thinking of you Welshy and wishing you all the luck in the world buddy................

:goodluck::goodluck::goodluck:

Just working out in my head what time it will be here when you are at your appointment, okay 7.15pm here, oops 8.15pm. I will be sending mega loads of prayers and positive thoughts your way mate. Hope you find some peace and rest tonight, take your friend Temaze to bed with you!

Love ya mate, :wub:
Dusty xxxxxxxx
 
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we're all right with you, Andrea - just imagine us all right behind you, like groupies :D
& we'll be there for you whatever is said tomorrow.

i don't know what to suggest to get a decent night's sleep, i know in your position right now there'd be no sleep in me.... when i was ill recently i passed the time and distracted my thoughts by doing stupid online games, like space invaders & bubble shooter...

all the very very best for tomorrow honey, for good results, and positive things for your future. i know you'll let us know when you can... we'll be waiting to hear... xxxx
 
How to get thru the night? Take the maximum allowable dose of percocets or whatever they gave you for the surgery pain. Better living thru chemicals, I say!

xo - Ames
 
We're all thinking of you Andrea :ghug:
Good luck tomorrow, everything is crossed
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I can't help much on the German Foreign Policy 1933-39 but at a snip I'd say ... charismatic Mr Hitler wins over the country with his proposed economic reforms and does some good things obtaining faithful followers.
While they think he's great he suggest how nice it would be to have some of the land Bismark "acquired" back and starts annexing. This 'patriotism' rallies support which steadily grows into blind obsession and almost idolatry.

Ultimately the feeble mined are brainwashed, the astute afraid and on April 28 1939, in a speech before the Reichstag, Adolf Hitler renounces the Anglo-German Naval Agreement and the German–Polish Non-Aggression Pact and the rest, as they say, is history ;)


Or you could go with this version ....

a nun bursts into song in the Austrian Alps, her name is Maria ....... :D

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Thinking of you :hug:
 
LMAO @ Jet- thank you so much for making the start of a long day so bright!
Think you have my thesis down to a 'T', now all I need is to bulk that out in another 14500 more words.
Thanks all, I'm outta here for now.
Have a good day xx
 
Hey Welshy,

Well if the docs are running to time your appointment may be over by now. I am thinking of you mate and hoping more than anything that the news is good!

Loads of love and hugs.........:wub:.........:hug:
Dusty. xxxxxxxx
 
Wow, what a fast moving thread! Hope it went well And!!

@Jet-I'm so glad you joined the forum too!!! That was blank-ing hilarious:)
 

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