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Hi all. First post. I'll give you some background as to where I'm coming from here. I've had Crohn's for 19 years, some of it has been pretty terrible, not all though. I'm well controlled right now.
I'm Ashkenazi Jewish, as I'm sure (looking at the statistics for IBD) a good number of you are as well. Dating has been terrifying for me. I want kids, but I know that if I pass my disease on in a way that I feel was reckless, I'll never forgive myself. My level of fear about this has already contributed to the demise of one relationship, and has left me puzzled about how to proceed. There's shared culture with other Jewish people, but then there's this metaphorical lurking monster if I were to have kids.
I'm currently in law school, and decided to use one of my final papers to explore a thought experiment. It's being written about the ethical and legal issues that might come up if we could genetically test for IBD. Currently, my understanding is that we can't (I looked into this early on when dating) due to the limited understanding of the disease... But what if we could?
Would we treat it like Tay Sachs, resulting in altered mate selection behavior? Maybe more like CF? I'm not even sure what people do there, roll the dice? What if we could test embryos? What about during IVF egg harvesting, would we discard affected eggs or keep them?
My thoughts on this started as, "Oh, it would be nice to voluntarily get tested for peace of mind." The more I've thought about it though, the more I'm seeing reasons why we might want to mandate not allowing reproduction to occur after we've reached a probability threshold that a child would have IBD... Which kind of starts to go down this weird road where I feel like I'm arguing for eugenics. It's not where I expected my thoughts to go.
Some other thoughts:
The less people that eventually have the disease via altered procreation prompted by testing, the more financially burdensome it will be to live with, as therapeutic treatments would eventually get orphan drug status. Similarly, in the biologics realm, with less drugs being developed, patients would have nowhere to turn eventually if they develop antibodies.
Testing would increase the stigma of having the disease by decreasing (in the long term) the number of individuals afflicted.
Testing could lead to children born with IBD eventually feeling like they shouldn't exist, had only their parents known to test. Is this something that happens with CF? I think that would be a precedent for this line of thought.
I could keep going, but I think you see where my thoughts are generally. I apologize for having to gesture type this on my phone, hopefully it turned out legible.
Please don't take any offense to any of what I've written, like I said, this is a thought experiment that is being developed into a paper based on a hypothetical genetic test that I'm unaware is even on the horizon.
Please share any and all thoughts you nay have on this subject. Things like, would you want to test yourself or spouse/finance/boyfriend/girlfriend as a carrier?
What would you do with that information?
Do you worry about passing on IBD if you have it?
Have you passed on IBD? If so, what are your thoughts on that?
If you were newly pregnant and knew the disease had been passed on, what do you think you'd do? Similarly, if you're a guy and your spouse or s/o was in such a situation, what would you do?
I'm looking for all viewpoints... and it's ok to hate my thoughts on this and say so, just tell me why please.
This is more than just a paper topic for me, underlying this paper is a personal struggle with the fear of passing on my disease.
Thanks in advance!
Mitch
I'm Ashkenazi Jewish, as I'm sure (looking at the statistics for IBD) a good number of you are as well. Dating has been terrifying for me. I want kids, but I know that if I pass my disease on in a way that I feel was reckless, I'll never forgive myself. My level of fear about this has already contributed to the demise of one relationship, and has left me puzzled about how to proceed. There's shared culture with other Jewish people, but then there's this metaphorical lurking monster if I were to have kids.
I'm currently in law school, and decided to use one of my final papers to explore a thought experiment. It's being written about the ethical and legal issues that might come up if we could genetically test for IBD. Currently, my understanding is that we can't (I looked into this early on when dating) due to the limited understanding of the disease... But what if we could?
Would we treat it like Tay Sachs, resulting in altered mate selection behavior? Maybe more like CF? I'm not even sure what people do there, roll the dice? What if we could test embryos? What about during IVF egg harvesting, would we discard affected eggs or keep them?
My thoughts on this started as, "Oh, it would be nice to voluntarily get tested for peace of mind." The more I've thought about it though, the more I'm seeing reasons why we might want to mandate not allowing reproduction to occur after we've reached a probability threshold that a child would have IBD... Which kind of starts to go down this weird road where I feel like I'm arguing for eugenics. It's not where I expected my thoughts to go.
Some other thoughts:
The less people that eventually have the disease via altered procreation prompted by testing, the more financially burdensome it will be to live with, as therapeutic treatments would eventually get orphan drug status. Similarly, in the biologics realm, with less drugs being developed, patients would have nowhere to turn eventually if they develop antibodies.
Testing would increase the stigma of having the disease by decreasing (in the long term) the number of individuals afflicted.
Testing could lead to children born with IBD eventually feeling like they shouldn't exist, had only their parents known to test. Is this something that happens with CF? I think that would be a precedent for this line of thought.
I could keep going, but I think you see where my thoughts are generally. I apologize for having to gesture type this on my phone, hopefully it turned out legible.
Please don't take any offense to any of what I've written, like I said, this is a thought experiment that is being developed into a paper based on a hypothetical genetic test that I'm unaware is even on the horizon.
Please share any and all thoughts you nay have on this subject. Things like, would you want to test yourself or spouse/finance/boyfriend/girlfriend as a carrier?
What would you do with that information?
Do you worry about passing on IBD if you have it?
Have you passed on IBD? If so, what are your thoughts on that?
If you were newly pregnant and knew the disease had been passed on, what do you think you'd do? Similarly, if you're a guy and your spouse or s/o was in such a situation, what would you do?
I'm looking for all viewpoints... and it's ok to hate my thoughts on this and say so, just tell me why please.
This is more than just a paper topic for me, underlying this paper is a personal struggle with the fear of passing on my disease.
Thanks in advance!
Mitch