Hi, I am a female in my late 30's. In December of 2014 I was misdiagnosed with internal Hemorrhoids, until the pain became so bad I landed in the ER. From there I was rushed into the OR to have an abscess drained and removed from my rectum. When I woke up I was told they had cut through my sphincter muscle to get at the abscess, but surgery went well and I should heal fine. One week after surgery, I developed what I thought was a cyst at the base of my vagina which burst, massive amounts of awful smelling infection drained from it, and I ended up being put on both Cipro and Flagyl for 6 weeks. From there it was determined I had a recto-vaginal fistula. I went in for an advanced flap repair surgery in Dec 2015, once in there they discovered a massive hemorrhoid in the way, so I ended up with a Hemorrhoidectomy and flap repair at the same time. This left me in excruciating pain for almost 2 months. And once again I was put on the Cipro and Flagyl for 4 weeks. The flap repair helped some, it stopped fecal matter from draining, but I still pass gas through there, and fecal liquid if I have diarrhea. Now I have developed another fistula, this time external, but painful and draining infection all the same. Surgeon now thinks I may have Crohn's and has scheduled me for a colonoscopy and an exploratory exam (under anesthetic) where I may wake up with a seton. I already suffer from general anxiety disorder (diagnosed and managed well for almost 10 years now), and I find this whole thing has made my anxiety flare up again. Just reaching out for some online support while I have a crappy day.