With a heavy heart I am writing this post. I am a male in my 30's and I was diagnosed with crohns in 2016 since then my life is very uncertain. We only have one kid born in 2018. My wife is more interested to have second kid but I really scared about this IBD genetics since I heard from the doctor 1 out of 4 kids may inherit this IBD when one of the parent have crohns. I am interested in listening to other people's experiences. I don't know how to handle this feeling of not having kid when you really thinking about it. Please share your experiences. My mother also diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis at her 50's. Please share your experiences. Thanks in advance