Hi Clash, you have been on my mind for some time and can completely relate to the anxiety of simmering disease, lack of weight gain, and now impending surgery......it's mind boggling especially because there are no guarantees. I can tell you that even though N's surgery last year did not help 100%, it did help and we have not regretted it. I do think it is important to be clear on post op pain management....this was not handled very well in N's case and it took several hours after the surgery to get it under control. Also, they did not place a catheter in and his bladder shut down and he was miserable, so I highly recommend placing a cath before he wakes up! The rest of the recuperation went smoothly. He was in 5 days total and rested for another 2 weeks or so. They removed 12cm plus the IC valve and cecum.
In terms of weight, he gained about 14 pounds from his lowest (87lbs post surg!) and has stayed there. He still has issues with foods not sitting well especially if he eats larger portions, but he feels much better over all and can tolerate more foods and has more energy. The surgeon told us before the surgery that he did not believe removing the stricture would help all of his symptoms, but post surgically, after seeing the condition of the section removed, he said it absolutely was the right thing to do. I felt so much relief then because I was digging my heals the whole time!
Hang in there Clash, and please keep us posted. Sending warm thoughts.