Mehita, just getting back to my PM...
I doubt I even have to say this but... I easily put off S's MRE because he's not having any symptoms, his is just a follow-up because it's been over two years since his last. But, I do understand needing to bide your time sometimes. I can't change too much as far as dr apptmts and tests, etc. but I've really stressed that S needs to let go of things that can be let go of, like some of his courses, and made him see alternatives - ie, if he can't pass all his courses, accept this, cut his losses, focus on the ones he can pass and then consider a course over the summer, etc. Or, take an extra year... these are things that are in his control, although it may not seem to be that way in their minds.
I've also stressed that everyone has a 'bad year' once in a while... it will pass! And stressed that not everything is bad (he's planning a trip) and not everything has no end in sight - ie school, however the year ends, will be over in a couple of months and he'll have a long break from it.
I'm sure you're doing all of this already :ghug: but just know you/he aren't alone in sometiimes fighting tough times. :ghug: