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farewell 2011- what's your best and worst moment of 2011???
i know i'll be glad to see the back of this year! but i also have a lot to be thankful for as a result
worst: i had the worst flare up beginning in March, i developed a recto-vag fistula and was told i needed my colon removed and ileostomy done...the day before i found this out i was sacked from my job for poor attendence- but they say its because they couldnt afford to keep me on.
i cut ties with most of my family for a short while before my surgery as they felt so sorry for me and i hated the sympathy.
best: its not a 'best moment' as such. i've just changed the way i view things now. before i used to worry and obsess over such stupid trivial matter and now none of that matters, i'm just glad i have my health back, i now have a life and i'm loving every minute of it.
i used to HATE my tummy, used to think it was flabby, now i have a scar from under my bustline to my pubic line and have my ileostomy bag there- its made me realise that you just don't appreciate what you have. i like my body more now than i did then - probably just because 'it works' now.
i was told after surgery i wouldn't have survived another 4 weeks and that the rectum and colon 'came apart in his hands' as he was removing it.
i have so much to be grateful for....you realise who your true friends are and how amazing you family can be.
i'll be so glad to wave goodbye to 2011, but it has taught me some valuable lessons.
i can't wait for 2012 and what it will bring
hope everyone has a great new year!!! what has been your best and worst moment of the year??
i know i'll be glad to see the back of this year! but i also have a lot to be thankful for as a result
worst: i had the worst flare up beginning in March, i developed a recto-vag fistula and was told i needed my colon removed and ileostomy done...the day before i found this out i was sacked from my job for poor attendence- but they say its because they couldnt afford to keep me on.
i cut ties with most of my family for a short while before my surgery as they felt so sorry for me and i hated the sympathy.
best: its not a 'best moment' as such. i've just changed the way i view things now. before i used to worry and obsess over such stupid trivial matter and now none of that matters, i'm just glad i have my health back, i now have a life and i'm loving every minute of it.
i used to HATE my tummy, used to think it was flabby, now i have a scar from under my bustline to my pubic line and have my ileostomy bag there- its made me realise that you just don't appreciate what you have. i like my body more now than i did then - probably just because 'it works' now.
i was told after surgery i wouldn't have survived another 4 weeks and that the rectum and colon 'came apart in his hands' as he was removing it.
i have so much to be grateful for....you realise who your true friends are and how amazing you family can be.
i'll be so glad to wave goodbye to 2011, but it has taught me some valuable lessons.
i can't wait for 2012 and what it will bring
hope everyone has a great new year!!! what has been your best and worst moment of the year??