I have got Crohn's and my cousin got Crohn's. My three brothers and two sisters, parents, grand parents, 7 other cousins, 5 nieces and nephews, 4 auns and uncles etc. all don't have Crohn's.
About 1.4 million Amercans have IBD, that's 1 in 200.
Here are two paragraphs on stats:
Outside of a parent or sibling having Crohn’s disease, or if you are a smoker, there are no clearly definable risk factors for getting Crohn’s disease, says Charles O. Elson, III, MD, vice-chair for research in the department of medicine and the Basil I. Hirschowitz Chair in Gastroenterology at the University of Alabama-Birmingham. If a relative has Crohn’s disease, your risk is 10 times that of the general population. If this relative is a sibling, your risk then becomes 30 times that of the general population.
“With identical twins, the likelihood of the other twin developing Crohn’s is around 50 percent,” says Josh Korzenik, MD, co-director of the Crohn's and Colitis Center at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston. Because only half of identical twins will eventually develop Crohn’s, even though they share the same genes as their sibling who has the disease, it’s clear that there are other risk factors at work.
Having said that, if your husband has Crohn's the chance of your kid getting it is increased fom 1 in 200 to 1 in 20. That's of course is all statistics... Who knows what really happens? Someone could say you got a 95% chance of getting something and you don't. Meanwhile with a 0.5% chance you could still get it.