New here.. Not to the disease! Had or supposedly had ulcerative colitis since about 1980... Suffered my whole childhood. J pouch at age 20. Three emergency surgeries . Cleveland clinic and Dr. Fazio. Great. Had about 10 good years. Then got fistulas. Had no idea what they were. Ignored. Drained myself. Then was diagnosed with chrones. Been on every med and remicade. I ignored my disease alot. And just suffered. Got sick of meds. Til I started living withn three fistulas that never went away amd started having accidents in the night. I'm rather vain. Work in fashion industry. Chrones takes your dignity right away. Lol. Friday went to surgeon. Wanted to get me in asap. Today I had a seton put in. After she told me it's time to take care ofmyself or I'll be having more accidents ... I agreed. J pouch and fistulas don't mix too well. I am home and in pain. Any advice. I go back in a couple of weeks. I think I didn't ask enough questions. I thought she was taking the seton out when I see her next. If I'm healed. All good. If not she said something about plugs so they can drain. I feel the seton. Will that go away?? I'm petrified to go to the bathroom and am refusing to eat for fear of a trip to bathroom. Meanwhile. Normally I go about 4-12 times a night lately. Any info on setons is appreciated. I'm a bit in the dark. I know I had no choice. Had to do it. I have phasing tunnels inside of me and out. How long do these setons usually stay in? On pain pills I'm wired. Can't sleep.