You need to get the reversal for sure
SKinny, After reading your post you must do the reversal because if you don't you will always wonder if it would have worked or not. And to tell the truth, there is a chance that you will be worse off than with a bag but the chances of being better off are much better than not. I just want you to know it is no walk in the park and can take up to 6 months for the BM's go down to 3-4 a day. I forget if I told you in my last post so I'l say it again. The operation is a big one and they do alot inside of you and if they have to cut you open instead of a lipo. it is more painful than getting the bag, but you can habdle that. For me and alot of others what starts to really get to you is all the BM's after the operation. They don't start till about 4-5 days after the reversal and then they will be alot. My 1st day was I think 5 but the next day was 15 then 10 then I think I left the hospital at around 8 a day and stayed there for about 2 weeks. Make sure you use some cream on your bum after each BM or it will get very sore. At 2 weeks I went to 1-2 a day, sounds good but it wasn't. I started getting off my diet (low residue diet) WAY to soon and I wasn't constapeted but it could not evacuate myself, I had soft stool but it wouldn't come out, could be because I'm on Norco for my back but I think it was because of eating 3 big, normal size meal instead of 5-6 smaller meals, thats the way to go. I had to take enemas and Milk of Magniesa (witch my Dr was pissed off, but the Dr. on call said to. Anyway I wanted to give you a update since I stopped all that. Its been 3 days now eating low residue diet 5 small meals a day and I'm doing better. BM's are going up, today I had 5, sounds like, why would Pops be happy that he had 5 BM's today, because it makes my tummy feel better. After the reversal you will have a TON of GAS and if you can't pass it you heart ALL the time, hence, if you have 5 or 6 BM's you also get ride of the gas and feel better. Some people start doing really good 3-4 weeks after the reversal but the rule for most is around 6 weeks to 6 months before they get their NEW normanl. I can say today was a OK day, I feel that it will get better each day but there will be set backs when I interduce a new food so It's a try and see thing. You'll finds food that don't bother you and you might want to stick with it on somedays when you want to feel good. But I can tell you , you will ALWAYS be dealing with GAS. I have a tip for you to help out. I didn't think it would work but it sure does help ALOT. I take 3-4 MINT OIL caps (1 or 2 at a time) throughout the day and it seames to keep the gas somewhat at bay, also I take GasX it also helps. I tell you when the gas is bad there is no pain pill on earth that will help, none, nota. It's a long recovery and I'm only 1 month into it today. My scar still hearts alot sometimes, like I said its harder than when you get your bag. One other thing, and this is very important. The more active you are the better you feel, not shit, hands down. If I feel like shit and if I just buck up and do something like take a walk, or go to the gym and do some treatmill or just some cardio instead of just sitting I DO FEEL WAY BETTER. I'm sorry for going on and on, but I think of you as a friend and want to help you as much as I can because this is a hard recovery but it is do-able thats for sure, and you can do it on your own, you might need some help with cooking for a few days right after getting out of the hospital, but if you start walking the day after the operation and have a 5-6 day stay you can do your own cooking. Pancakes, or eggs are real good in the morning, Tuna or grilled cheese for lunch. OOOOOOOOOOOO and if you want to gain some lbs before the operation, and you should because you will loss about 10lbs after the op. Eat ALOT of FAT and protin, right now don't worry about how healthy you eat, you want lbs, eat the skin from the chickn, eat alot of icecream each night before you go to bed. My Dr. told me after my 2nd operation that as long as 50% of what I eat is good for me the rest don't matter. You just need to gain the weight. I was eating over 3,000 caleries a day for 4 months and went from 121lbs to over 160.
Sorry for the long note. It's Friday night and for the first time in a few days I'm feeling pretty good and got caried away, sorry. Good luck with everything and I wish you the best. I'll keep you up to date in regards to my condition.
Pops