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so fed up im speachless

you know when you reach that point when you dont care what happens.. and you just go through ya days like a zombie not really caring!

so fed up at the moment. i dont feel anything, itsd like im numb.

i feel so tired constantly, achey joints, stomach ache and nausea and having a mix of D and constipation! it sucks!

college are really piling the work on i havnt got enough time to do it all. ive got 3 part time jobs one which im quiting after christmas. the other i work at claires and my boss keeps giving me way too many hours even though she knows the situation with my health. i got a text today from a girl i work with asking if ican cover her shift next thursday.. but she ahs already spoken to my boss about it and arranged for me to go in at 5 instead of 4 cos ive got college. even though they all know ive got to go for the capsule endoscopy next wednesday! im going to be exhausted from that cos ive gotta be up at 6am and wont be back until late. and they jsut expect me to work when i told them i dont know what would happen?! and the other job i do Virgin Vie and tats the fun job that i dont mind :D

i keep snapping at my mum and i dont mean to so i feel really guilty. my boyfriend wont stop fussing.. or trying to get me in bed! n he still jsut doesnt get it.. its like he listens.. but doesnt really listen.

im so fed up with it all.. when will it ever end

:(
x
 
you really sound like you need a holiday on a deserted island with no one to harrass you for a while Babe.

tell your bosses your having a couple of weeks off, tell your boyfriend he has a hand, curl up on a couch with your head on your mums lap so she can stroke your hair while you try get some rest.

it will end some day, but maybe some changes in your life will help take some stress away and help it end.

i know we have to work, to study, to try be nice to our partners. but damn, we really gotta look after ourselves first and foremost when were feeling like this.

take care kiddo!
 
I know how you feel with college. They love to pile everything into the last week of school. This week has made me a nervous wreck. Good luck with everything and can you ask work if you can take a few days off. You need some rest and relaxation.
 
Babe your weaknesses that everyone else sees will become your strength. Only then will you distinguish what friendship really means. I hate to be so harsh, but I didnt get this far with a sore heart. People come they go ! If there is one defining moment in your life and the other dosent see it well then your on your own. Relaxation, a pure thought is the key. Fcuk the rest !
 
Not worth the stress, honey.

You're burning the candle from both ends. Make a list of your priorities, and lop off those aspects you can live without.

I was young, had three part-time jobs, full-time school, and an uncaring girlfriend when I crashed and burned. Take it from me, a grumpy old guy, Crohn's is the only winner in your situation.
 
Im sorry u are having a hard time! It seems like when things pile up, so does the stress and then the IBD issues get worse. At least for me its true.
Your health is most important, so if u need to cut back on work u should.
I know its hard financially but school is the most important thing!
I worked a full time job and went to school on all my days off and one night after work. I dont recommend this busy schedule to anyone, let alone anyone with IBD.
I hope u get some rest!
Do u have any student loans or have u considered them to get through school?
That definitely reduced my stress...for now!
 
Can you cover my shift, too?
Girl you need to learn to say NO!
I don't mean to be harsh, but you have to prioritize your health cuz no-one else will.
Hope it eases up for you after the holidays at least....maybe you;ll be in Cancun by then....LOL
 
i really do need to start sayng no. i find it hard to say no. i will practice. college is free for me.. but i need money for the petrol for my car and for the books i need. ill need a loan for university. right i have decided i will not be a push over any more. No will be my answer from now on.. unless someone asks to buy me a drink.. then it will be yes :D

work wont let me have any days off in december. they had a go at me for going on work placement in december. im just going to have to get through christmas and then quit my 1st job. and talk to college about the work load. they are really understanding with me.

i feel crappy today. does any one else get chest pains when they are stressd?

does any one know how to write a letter of resignation?X
 
Babe123 said:
does any one know how to write a letter of resignation?X
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i found this one on the net

Dear Mr. Baker,

As an employee of an institution of higher education, I have few very basic expectations. Chief among these is that my direct superiors have an intellect that ranges above the common ground squirrel. After your consistent and annoying harassment of my co-workers and me during our commission of duties, I can only surmise that you are one of the few true genetic wastes of our time.

Asking me, a network administrator, to explain every nuance of everything I do each time you happen to stroll into my office is not only a waste of time, but also a waste of precious oxygen. I was hired because I know how to network computer systems, and you were apparently hired to provide amusement to your employees, who watch you vainly attempt to understand the concept of "cut and paste" as it is explained to you for the hundredth time.

You will never understand computers. Something as incredibly simple as binary still gives you too many options. You will also never understand why people hate you, but I am going to try and explain it to you, even though I am sure this will be just as effective as telling you what an IP is. Your shiny new iMac has more personality than you ever will.

You wander around the building all day, shiftlessly seeking fault in others. You have a sharp dressed, useless look about you that may have worked for your interview, but now that you actually have responsibility, you pawn it off on overworked staff, hoping their talent will cover for your glaring ineptitude. In a world of managerial evolution, you are the blue-green algae that everyone else eats and laughs at. Managers like you are a sad proof of the Dilbert principle.

Seeing as this situation is unlikely to change without you getting a full frontal lobotomy reversal, I am forced to tender my resignation; however, I have a few parting thoughts:

1. When someone calls you in reference to employment, it is illegal for you to give me a bad recommendation as I have consistently performed my duties and even more. The most you can say to hurt me is, "I prefer not to comment." To keep you honest, I will have friends randomly call you over the next couple of years, because I know you would be unable to do it on your own.

2. I have all the passwords to every account on the system and I know every password you have used for the last five years. If you decide to get cute, I will publish your "Favorites," which I conveniently saved when you made me "back up" your useless files. I do believe that terms like "Lolita" are not viewed favorably by the university administrations.

3. When you borrowed the digital camera to "take pictures of your mother's b-day," you neglected to mention that you were going to take nude pictures of yourself in the mirror. Then, like the techno-moron you are, you forgot to erase them. Suffice it to say, I have never seen such odd acts with a ketchup bottle. I assure you that those photos are being kept in safe places pending your authoring of a glowing letter of recommendation. (And, for once, would you please try to use spellcheck? I hate correcting your mistakes.)

I expect the letter of recommendation on my desk by 8:00 am tomorrow. One word of this to anybody and all of your twisted little repugnant obsessions will become public knowledge. Never f*ck with your systems administrator, Mr. Baker! They know what you do with all that free time!

Sincerely



David Blocker

Network Administrator
 
haha that made me laugh :D id love to give my boss at the pub a letter like that. shes always really nasty to me!

im smiling now :D x
 
ha - i did actually write a much shorter similar version to an ex boss a long time ago.... wrote it for a giggle while i was about to do a serious resignation letter, got encouraged by naughty workmates to continue the rude one, and it was so funny i thought what the hell.. and left that one on his desk. hehe.

Laura, just a thought here... have you ever applied for Incapacity Benefit? i am on it right now, because i can't work with my Crohns symptoms being the way they are. it's not a fortune, but it might be enough to supplement your income and stop you being so stressed out with juggling jobs.
 
i didnt think of that. but i thought that since i havnt got an official diagnosis then i wouldnt be able to get it.

im getting really nervous about my capssule endoscopy on wednesday :( x
 
i'm not sure.. you may still be entitled to Incap purely because of the health issues you have and the way they affect your ability to work. i think all you would need to verify your condition would be a letter from your GP, even though diagnosis isn't done yet..
 
ahh right ok

what does it mean by a light breakfast?

and if im allowed nil by mouth after 9pm the night before can i chew chewing gum?X
 
ooh noo. the reason i ask is that i get quite bad nausea in the morning and if i cant have a drink of water im stuffed. :(
x
 
i officially quit my job

after what they done tonight they got no chance o me stayin there. i was only staying so my so called friend wouldnt be in trouble over xmas but she can stuff it after what she done
x
 
hell yes ! i rung the brewery and made a formal complaint and i am taking my letter tonight

i feel so freeeeeee! :D:D:D:D
x
 

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