Not a lot to update re Stephen. Did have an apptmt with his GP yesterday, he's such a nice man! :thumright: He supported the idea of a second opinion and is sending referral, is re-running bloodwork as the GI had said the 'improvement' in his last labwork could have been a one-time thing, admitted he's not a GI so doesn't have the expertise but, didn't feel that the MRE showed immediate urgency although it did show continued inflammation. All in all, nothing new but supportive...
Havent' heard back from GI yet!!! Sent email Wednesday and Thursday! :ymad: And, I think their office is closed on Fridays??? So, am not expecting to hear from him until Monday at the earliest! :voodoo:
Unfortunately, things aren't well with my dad. He's been forgetful for the past year or so but with isolated things - ie forgetting restaurant names, 'numbers' were a problem, etc. but, was still dealing with all the bills, knew when he was being overcharged, driving to see friends all over the city (downtown, next township, etc.), etc. But, this infection has had a significant impact on his mental abilities (at times, over this week, hasn't known his name, where he was, etc.). Tests were run both for the infection and dementia and he's been diagnosed with dementia. While we know the dementia won't improve, they have said that once the infection is under control, he may go back to 'baseline', however, he may also be left with some lasting worsening of the dementia. And, then to top it all off... he was at his worst on Tuesday (mentally and infection-wise), was much better Wednesday, but almost back to Tuesday's condition yesterday. Then, at 6:30pm, they tell me mom 'oh, he's been discharged, you need to take him home now!' She hasn't even spoken to the doctor once! She's been asking over and over again to speak to the doctor but, I suppose, their paths just haven't crossed. My mom is at the hospital ALL the time, however, she has left a couple of times when my dad was sleeping, etc. - they were insinuating that the doctor has tried futilely to speak to her but she's never around! My mom freaked!!! Said he was in the same condition as when she brought him in, and actually worse than the previous day! Said he can't even get up, how is she supposed to take him home when she wasn't given any notice nor time to make any preparations at home (will need some help to 'physically' move him and, as she won't be able to leave him at all, needs to do shopping, etc.)
(Canada's healthcare does have its issues! :ymad) So, in the end, they agreed to keep him until this morning and a time was set for my mom and brother to meet with the doctor and discuss treatment of his foot (which, literally has 3 PURPLE toes, 2 when he went in on Tuesday!) My mom is very upset - with the treatment, with the responsibilities she'll have NOW and with what the future holds
I know it'll seem better in a few days (tried to tell her
), once things settle and, hopefully, my dad is a bit better mentally but... hard to accept when it's all happening.
So, has been a bit of a downpour here...