Me too Mary
I've always been able to manage the pain for years, but the minute I vomited, I knew something was wrong.
I would go to A&E, get some help, get some rest, some pain relief, things are not panning out for you at the moment, and whilst your there, call your husband's bluff, and tell him to do one! ie F*** Off!
I'm sorry, but you just don't need a soul sucker like him at the mo
get to hospital xxxxx