Hi Fabi and Coltyn's Family,
I'm sorry both your children have been diagnosed!
It's certainly overwhelming receiving the diagnosis and suddenly making all sort of decisions re the medications! :ybatty:
Unfortunately I can't offer much info re the meds as I have little to no experience with them; my son was diagnosed last May (at 16 years old) and his treatment was Enteral Nutrition (EN). EN has a comparable success rates at inducing remission as steroids and has no side effects. For some reason, while it is commonly used as a treatment option in Europe, Canada and elsewhere, it is not as commonly used in the U.S. I believe it may be an issue of patient compliancy. The treatment involves a time period (usually around 6 weeks) when nutrition is given solely from a nutritional formula (either orally or through an Naso-Gastric tube); after this time period, food is reintroduced.
My son chose to use an NG tube, inserts it at night and ingested his formula overnight. During the day, he was allowed clear fluids such as broth, jello, etc. His maintenance has been 1/2 the dose, 5 nights per week. His only medication so far has been an antacid. It has no side effects and provides all the necessary nutrition. He had lost 20 lbs prior to diagnosis, within 3 months of starting EN, he had gained 30 lbs and has stabilized there.
There's quite a bit of info re EN on the Parents of kids w/IBD subforum as well as in the Treatment subforum. And, please feel free to ask any other questions. There are currently a number of children, close to the age of yours, who have recently or are currently doing EN.
Regarding the medications, there are many supportive and knowledgeable parents on the Parents subforum, many of whom share your concerns regarding the meds - feel free to have a look through the forum.
Good luck to both your children!