13 years since the onset of symptoms and first surgery. I'd been resisting surgery for several years, which is when my GI started talking to me about surgery. However, YEARS of a flare categorized as "severe", I decided that it was time for surgery. Because of my symptoms, I rarely left my house, could hardly do anything around the house to help out, haven't worked, quit school, couldn't eat anything, etc. and felt I had to do something to get some control over my life.
I had a permanent ileostomy about three months ago, and haven't had a single cramp, no nausea, no temperature/fevers/fistulas/abscesses, have accepted several dinner invitations to friends' homes, taken the dog for a walk, and so forth. Although I'm still getting used to the bag, I'm incredibly thankful for this reprieve from the symptoms.