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O is going to murder me , but I have more:
6) No going to school unless you are well enough to: cook for yourself, clean yourself and your apartment and MOST IMPORTANTLY: are able to consume enough calories by mouth (food or Ensure) or by tube (if she cannot drink formula) to be GAINING weight (when she is up to her normal, then this rule can change to "maintaining weight"). This is going to be about 2000 calories, and if she's eating about 700 now, then she has to supplement with formula
7) No going to school unless you promise to us that you will put your health before school - as my daughter put it "You can replace joints, but you can't replace colons"
8) No downplaying symptoms/lying about symptoms EVER
9) Fever above 100.4 means an email to the GI and a call to Mom. A high fever (above whatever her doctor decides, for ex: 103 F) means contact her GI and Mom + go to the ER. Fainting may mean an ER trip and at the very least, warrants calls to GI + Mom
10) She will do whatever is needed medically (such as blood work, stool tests, picking up a prescription OR going to the ER when told to) promptly and MUST prioritize her health over school and no arguing with the doctor/Mom
11) The words "I am fine" are banned! Instead symptoms will described (number of BMs, whether blood is present, any kind of pain, mouth sore, nausea, appetite, headaches/feeling faint etc.)
I know I've mentioned prioritizing her health over school twice but I think that cannot be stressed enough, especially with O!
6) No going to school unless you are well enough to: cook for yourself, clean yourself and your apartment and MOST IMPORTANTLY: are able to consume enough calories by mouth (food or Ensure) or by tube (if she cannot drink formula) to be GAINING weight (when she is up to her normal, then this rule can change to "maintaining weight"). This is going to be about 2000 calories, and if she's eating about 700 now, then she has to supplement with formula
7) No going to school unless you promise to us that you will put your health before school - as my daughter put it "You can replace joints, but you can't replace colons"
8) No downplaying symptoms/lying about symptoms EVER
9) Fever above 100.4 means an email to the GI and a call to Mom. A high fever (above whatever her doctor decides, for ex: 103 F) means contact her GI and Mom + go to the ER. Fainting may mean an ER trip and at the very least, warrants calls to GI + Mom
10) She will do whatever is needed medically (such as blood work, stool tests, picking up a prescription OR going to the ER when told to) promptly and MUST prioritize her health over school and no arguing with the doctor/Mom
11) The words "I am fine" are banned! Instead symptoms will described (number of BMs, whether blood is present, any kind of pain, mouth sore, nausea, appetite, headaches/feeling faint etc.)
I know I've mentioned prioritizing her health over school twice but I think that cannot be stressed enough, especially with O!