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So maybe Humira or Stelara is a better option then. Especially since she would have be compliant with many things while on MTX - the birth control, not drinking and actually taking the MTX!!
Maybe Stelara would be best for compliance since it would clear up her psoriasis! I'm sure being less itchy and uncomfortable will somewhat of an incentive.
We were very tough on compliance. My older daughter had a brief period of "I'm not taking my meds." It was MTX she was objecting to, since it made her nauseous and tired the next day. We checked with her doctor, but she had tried dropping MTX earlier and flared immediately, so her rheumatologist was really quite concerned about permanent joint damage.
So we said, if you're not old enough to be trusted to take your meds, you can't be away from home. You'll have to come home from college next semester.
That led to some spectacular fights, but we could not compromise on her joints. However, we did work with her and with her rheumatologist to come up with some compromise to make her feel better - her rheumatologist lowered the dose of MTX a bit and allowed her more Zofran. She also said if it was only a few drinks each week, S could drink as long as her liver numbers stayed within the normal range.
It is so difficult once they are over 18. They are technically adults, but really they're still kids in many ways. And as my daughters like to say, the prefrontal cortex (the decision making center) is developing till about age 26 - that is why they make bad decisions.
It was a hard situation and we really did debate letting her figure out the hard way that she really needed MTX. But we already had one child whose disease had become extremely aggressive when she was under-treated for just a few months. And permanent joint damage would have meant permanent pain. We just could not risk all that...
I am still not sure what would have been the right decision - to force her to take MTX or to let her make her own decisions and then deal with the consequences. I'm not sure there is a single "right" decision...
Maybe Stelara would be best for compliance since it would clear up her psoriasis! I'm sure being less itchy and uncomfortable will somewhat of an incentive.
We were very tough on compliance. My older daughter had a brief period of "I'm not taking my meds." It was MTX she was objecting to, since it made her nauseous and tired the next day. We checked with her doctor, but she had tried dropping MTX earlier and flared immediately, so her rheumatologist was really quite concerned about permanent joint damage.
So we said, if you're not old enough to be trusted to take your meds, you can't be away from home. You'll have to come home from college next semester.
That led to some spectacular fights, but we could not compromise on her joints. However, we did work with her and with her rheumatologist to come up with some compromise to make her feel better - her rheumatologist lowered the dose of MTX a bit and allowed her more Zofran. She also said if it was only a few drinks each week, S could drink as long as her liver numbers stayed within the normal range.
It is so difficult once they are over 18. They are technically adults, but really they're still kids in many ways. And as my daughters like to say, the prefrontal cortex (the decision making center) is developing till about age 26 - that is why they make bad decisions.
It was a hard situation and we really did debate letting her figure out the hard way that she really needed MTX. But we already had one child whose disease had become extremely aggressive when she was under-treated for just a few months. And permanent joint damage would have meant permanent pain. We just could not risk all that...
I am still not sure what would have been the right decision - to force her to take MTX or to let her make her own decisions and then deal with the consequences. I'm not sure there is a single "right" decision...