I feel for you, Mary, and I wish I knew how to get rid of a hemmie too. I've had a hemmie for about a month and a half now. It shrank a little bit on its own, but then I had to drink prep and the whole "peeing out my butt" thing angered the hemmie all over again. I tried preparation H, vitamin E, sitz baths, etc and nothing has helped. I do put calmoseptine on it a couple times a day which helps soothe it, but it hasn't shrank any further. It's a stubborn little thing! I hate it!