Hi, Trinitup:
I totally understand your frustration.
Unfortunately there is just no "one-size-fits-all" treatment for IBD. Each person is different and so is their treatment.
I have depression and I realize how IBD can make a person become isolated.
Dont give up. It takes time for the medication to work.
Also, express your concerns with your doctor.
Just know that all of us here have had the same or similar experiences. This is a great forum.
I am also going to hopefully start Humira soon.
Keep in touch.
Sending you my support.
Lynda