I've had to fight for my role as a woman here in this state. (See, Utah isn't perfect). "a bit girly" was a little offensive in my book, because of where I grew up. My comment would have put any male on the defensive. That doesn't mean I don't like you, Robert. You've been a good sport about a lot of things. I should have toned it down, though. Sorry Robert. I had a hard week, and I shouldn't have taken it out on the ones I care for. (Don't read anything into that, I just care for all you crohnies, especially my shaky crohny h , who is also "shaky" because he also has "essential tremor." He won't let me call him "my shaky old crohn" though, because he is not old yet. It just sounds fun and I like to tease. But what I said was rude. Forgive me?