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sex and the lack of desire to do it?
ok.. I am 36 supposed to be in the prime of my life and have NO desire to have sex. My husband is awesome and we have a great marriage. Heck sex is great when we have it. But I am in a huge flare and have been for months and just don't have it in me. My husband is understanding but he is a guy after all. My biggest problem is that I have hemroids and a fistula and fissures in the rectum area and they are so swollen they are near the vaginal area.. I know TMI TMI.. I know I could be more creative.. I don't do oral sex so that is out and I just don't have the energy to put into it. And how the heck does one feel sexy with all the Issues going on in that area.. am I alone on this one?
ok.. I am 36 supposed to be in the prime of my life and have NO desire to have sex. My husband is awesome and we have a great marriage. Heck sex is great when we have it. But I am in a huge flare and have been for months and just don't have it in me. My husband is understanding but he is a guy after all. My biggest problem is that I have hemroids and a fistula and fissures in the rectum area and they are so swollen they are near the vaginal area.. I know TMI TMI.. I know I could be more creative.. I don't do oral sex so that is out and I just don't have the energy to put into it. And how the heck does one feel sexy with all the Issues going on in that area.. am I alone on this one?