Sorry to hear about the issue with the 30 day window. I wish things like this would be covered in future reforms.
I've been in the uninsured limbo before and it is a challenge.
Crazy thing is, I will probably be returning to the uninsured for a short while coming up. I think I've done what I can for the moment, so I'm remaining hopeful.
I don't know the details of your husband's employment history but you did say new job. Is he getting paid more? If so, maybe looking at alternative methods would be worthwhile for the moment. For instance, many dieticians/nutritionist that specialize in IBD, don't take insurance anyway, so this might be a good time to see one while the employment picture looks good.
Just a thought.