I think Jessi needs to win today. This post is for her. She just had her father have gall bladder surgery (and NOT laparoscopic - the stones were too big), on top of her grandmother dying (funeral was while Jessi's dad, grandmother's son was in the hospital), then she had seizure (s) while having her remicade infusion, and her husband started having blood in his urine, only to just find out after two or three trips to the e.r. plus an overnight stay at the hospital, he has a kidney stone and they can't operate until his kidney is working better. Plus, she has a family at home to take care of.(((hugs))) to Jessi!