My daughter was diagonised a year ago with crohn's, she has been hospitalized many times over the last year. She is so sick and in so much pain that the doctors have decided to remove part of her intestines and colon tomorrow to remove the absesses . I need to explain to her 8 year old daughter what her mom is going through, and than what kind of life she can lead therafter. Do you lead "normal" lives after having this type of surgery?