Oh man, what a week...
Vent warning ahead cause I just have to get this outta my system...
So last Saturday I get an email from Sarah saying she will need to move. It turns out her two flatmates, they are in a relationship, dump it in her lap that they want to move. Now don't get me wrong, I know that sharing a flat is fraught with potential problems but it goes deeper than that and that is what I am having trouble getting my head around.
There are many things that are pissing me off about this whole thing...
A bit of background first. One the girls has been Sarah's friend since kindergarten and we as a family and Sarah individually have helped this girl through some difficult family situations, her coming out to her parent's was one of the more difficult times she faced, as well as general everyday stuff e.g. her parents wouldn't find the time to take her to get her learners permit so we did.
When the lease was up in March Sarah said she wanted to move, the other two were adamant they wanted to stay, so Sarah says...well I would like to move out so perhaps they could someone else to move in. They beg her to stay so she does. Thank goodness they didn't take out another lease but rather are on a three weeks notice to vacate plan.
So after telling her they are thinking of moving last Saturday they tell her Tuesday morning they have found a place and have already applied. By this time Sarah is so bloody anxious and freaked out she is barely sleeping or functioning.
Bear in mind that it was a Public Holiday last Monday so bloody tell me they haven't had this planned and had already looked around! I swear to god I could the string the F*&^%ing pair up! Grrrrrrrrrr. I am just so disappointed in their behaviour, it is disrespectful and selfish to say the least. God knows I am not saying that Sarah is an angel, far from it but she is also the only one with a car and runs them around and then I find out yesterday from a mutual friend of theirs that the other girls are doing no cleaning or general upkeep in the flat, Sarah is doing it all plus they have been having digs at her about her eating and exercise habits. I already knew about this last one.
I have no doubt that Sarah will be far, far better off away from them but they could have been kinder and more considerate. I can only assume that they made sure they had somewhere else to live before dropping the bombshell to Sarah. No doubt they were afraid she might find somewhere first and then they would be left in the lurch. :voodoo:
As it is Sarah has found somewhere else to live. I have a cousin and her husband rattling around in a huge two storey house by themselves, the top storey is pretty much self contained, and they will love having Sarah there. Probably not the most ideal place for Sarah, it is a bit of a commute but not too far and it will at least buy her time. The other bonus is they love cats! :lol:
Then today Matt goes to his soccer game only to find the location has been changed to another town! Nothing like telling the players! Sometimes I wonder if the organisers of these games could organise a root in a brothel! :eek2:
Vent and rant well and truly over!
If you read through all that then you deserve one of these...
Dusty. :tinfoil: