Hi Annie - you really do need to be seen by a doctor to get a definitive diagnosis and so you can get some type of treatment. If you have an issue with doctors, they should be able to assist you with finding something that will relax you enough for an exam. It may take something stronger than what you have already tried....but don't give up and try to get answers. If left untreated, you can be susceptible to other complications such as infection etc.