I am 30 years old male born with Hurshsprungs. Ive had many surgeries in my life starting as a baby. Im 30 wearing a depends to bed. Always afraid of pooping the bed and having to wake up my husband. Im always washing sheets doctors cant find anything that i can afford to help. I get out of the car i poop i lift i poop at times walking or any strenuous exercise im 30 just married and afraid to travel because of pooping the bed. Im told i should laugh about it that we can washe the sheets or replace them well the mattress is what i am worried about as well as my sex life. Im so over this any advice?