I need a hug

[Eve_L]

I have been really struggling with the crohns since 26 December and have been bleeding heavily every day every time I go to the toilet. I have such urgency but tonight I have reached an all time low.

I was sat watching TV and could feel I had to go to the toilet, but as usual, I couldnt move because if I did everything would have come out. Just when I thought it had passed, it just all came out and totally messed myself. I ran to the toilet and it was just everywhere. I had to get showered, throw some of my clothes away and clean and mop the bathroom.

I feel so ashamed that this has happened. Ive come very close before but have always made it in time, but there was no way this was going to be stopped. I went in my room and just cried my heart out. I know I cant be the only one this has happened to but right now it feels like it is. I feel like I just need a hug from someone who understands. Thanks for reading xxxx

 

[shazz]

Oh hun.

Sending you lots of hugs. :hug::hug::hug::hug:

You are not alone in this. I have not made in time before and it is horrible, but if you read some of the other stories on here you will see you are not the only one.

 

[Eve_L]

Thank you so much. It's just very shocking this first time. It's scary to not be in control of my own functions!

 

[Bernie1986]

Bless you Eve, I'd give you a hug if I could, rest up and get well, I've just hit remission through just over 2years of a flare and it will come, try to keep that in your mind.
Here's a virtual flower instead )

 

[tlc-x]

Big hugs!! You're not alone, and you will get through this. The people on this site are amazing. They're really supportive and they care. Atleast two people on the site will have been through or know about something to do with what you're going through. Keep talking on here and letting people know what is going on.

I was talking to my mum earlier about people messing in their underwear. She doesn't have crohn's or IBD. She said that everyone at some point in their life does have an accident. It's more likely with IBD but it happens to us all. It sucks and it's horrible, but it's not the end. Stay strong. You'll get through this xx

 

[Hexie]

Eve - here's a couple of hugs for you :hug: :hug:

And you're not alone in having that happen to you - it's happened to me too - more than once. Hang in there petal, things will get better xx

Shelli

 

[Snap]

:hug: Hello Eve---many hugs to ya! OHHHHHHH yesssss--I have pooed my pants many times. Driving down the road, walking to the bathroom at home, at work, etc. It's awful--but you just clean up and go on! Okay, maybe cry a bit sometimes! So sorry--try not to be too embarrassed about it--shi* happens! Okay--that was a bad joke, wasn't it! Hang in there--hugs again!
:stinks: Dana :hug:

 

[guest9933]

Don't worry this happened to me when I had my first big flare stting in my chair and need to go but it just flies out when runing to the toilet which is just a few metres away

actually it happened to me a few weeks back I hate pooing my pants at home as there are 2 bathrooms I feel so low when i have an accident at home relax your not alone

 

[Soybean]

Big hugs to ya hun!! :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:
I've had it happen a few times too, sometimes I just cried cos it is very degrading, other times I just sort of went oh well and started the clean up. Luckily it has, so far, never fully happened when out and aboot. It is horrible, but don't beat yourself up aboot it, it's not your fault, and you're not alone. I really hope the drs can get things under control for you so you start to feel much better, and it becomes a distant memory.

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

 

[guest9933]

it happens to me when i'm out most of the time my stupid bowel decides to move right when i'm at the checkout and in the middle of getting stuff scanned and some of the supermarkets around my area employ people with mental probs or they're an old slow lady so they take they're time a wham its all in my pants this is why I have started weariang adult diapers when I'm out and about they don't help the smell but clening up after is easy at least

 

[soretum]

oh yeah that deserves a very big hug, this stupid bloody ridiculous disease really knows how to kick ya when you're down thats for sure....Big hugs and one day I promise you you will laugh about it, if only because you have to develope a weird sense of humour to cope with these things!

 

[Samboi]

Hugs.
I've had lots of accidents in the last three months.
I had one in the hospital that I was so ashamed of. I was really upset and had to tell the nurse. She was so matter of fact about it - made me feel heaps better. Reminded me that it can't be helped and nobody does judge us for it. It just happens. It's bloody dispiriting sometimes though!!
Chin up tiger.

 

[David]

*hugs*