(Wordy, as usual.)
Several things to say, not in any particular order. Jealous of the button collection, have a smaller one tho, married Doug for his beautiful wavy grey hair and money, but I gave him a lot more grey and spent all his money (and also gave him a few slightly thinning spots as well). I have a shark vacuum just recently bought, love it, would like a Dyson stick as well but no place to keep it plugged in to charge, thought of starting a gratitude journal myself, thankful I didn't pass out in my lung function test today, and thankful for my friend who drove me when I did not feel safe driving (shared some fun stories too). I'm sorry everyone here is dealing with horrible health, glad Trysha said "boo" again (hope you're able to post if you want to), glad I don't have chickens, they scare me. Ever hear of a chicken phobia before?
I hope the moving is going well, Shanen.
Tony, I'm glad you're there because it reminds me not to complain QUITE as much. I know it isn't attactive when someone whines all the time. I remember when you said "pouting is an evil weapon and should only be used sparingly." The timing of you saying that was interesting...
I realized not long after joining this forum how we in the US are perceived internationally as, well, sniveling and spoiled complainers, not so much thru what was said to us directly on the forum, but more thru the strength and lack of sniveling and complaining by others (and little bits of info I have received thru the years in non-forum areas about perceptions of Americans). It made me want to be stronger and not complain so much ... for a while and to a point. Then I realized I couldn't stop being who I was and that my "pouting" as it were was what helped me survive at times. I do realize there are limits, however. Lastweek I watched a PBS program on the telly (lol, I said "telly" automatically, picked that term up here, most USers say "TV") where a professor at a local university who studies the verbage used, words chosen, in same language but different cultures situations. Long story shortened, he explained how some cultures, using the same language, consider one way of expressing oneself as rude while in another culture it is the opposite, and in some cases expected. For instance, in some cultures when someone is expressing something negative (whining), some cultures perceive that as they are asking for help and offers suggestions, while another culture would just perceive that as a form of self therapy, and offer empathy. If the person is expecting possible solutions to their problem, they might consider it rude to only get "I'm sorry" comments in reply, or on the other hand, when someone is only looking for a shoulder to lean on, they might feel offended by "unsolicited advice." Even tho this world is ever shrinking, cultures, and just individual perceptions of the human experience, can make things complicated. This place (the forum in general) has helped me grow a lot. Even if just debating who is the biggest hoarder. And I always like Ron's
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