Hi everyone. New here. My “so healthy he never missed a day of school out sick” 7 yr old son is presenting with an atypical CD case and it’s been a scary and confusing time. So I’m wondering if any of you all have dealt with a similar situation. I’m desperate to talk to any other parents who understand IBD. So here it goes … sorry for the long post.
Four months ago my kiddo started complaining of stomach pains, had frequent night sweats, stopped eating much and dropped 10-15% of his body weight. Never (and still hasn’t) had diarrhea or bloody stool. After bloodwork showed inflammatory markers, pediatrician referred us to a pediatric GI at top Children’s Hospital in NYC (where we live). More labs done and Calpro > 3000. GI PCR all negative but doc thinks infection. Two weeks pass and he’s better then horribly worse. Son ends up admitted to the hospital where MRE confirms inflammation in small intestine. Colonoscopy is clear/normal but endoscopy shows some abnormalities that are biopsied. Biopsy comes back as not suggestive of IBD or celiac. Calpro drops to 445. Bloodwork all over the place … some stuff better some worse. He’s anemic. New symptoms arise like daily fevers everyday at 4pm and mouth sores. Albumin very low so infused. After another hospitalization and having rheumatology, immunology, infectious disease, hematology and oncology consulted, GI doctors reluctantly decide to do pill cam as they’re still convinced it’s infection. When doc uses scope to insert the pill they notice the abnormalities they saw 10 days before on original endoscopy look better/healed with no drug intervention, so they biopsy again. Pill cam shows scattered lesions in part of intenstine scope couldn’t reach but biopsy of upper area again not suggestive of CD. Doctors don’t want to label kiddo with chronic disease and start meds if they aren’t 100% sure and for them 100% sure is confirmed biopsy. Son is getting worse, constant pain, not eating … he’s now got an NG tube for night feeds to stop weight loss. I beg and they finally agree to prednisolone to help him feel better. But they encourage us to get more opinions to see if others have seen similar cases recently as healing with no drug intervention, improving Calpro (though never normal), lack of confirmed biopsy and no family history make them skeptical it’s CD. So now I have no idea what to believe. Second opinion I get from another large NYC hospital does think it’s CD (all signs pointing that way) though also not thrilled with the missing biopsy confirmation. Steroids working beautifully … eating like a horse, feels no pain, moon-faced and bloated but so much happier and playing and smiling.
so my question, has anyone else’s kid been diagnosed without a confirmed biopsy? Is that really the gold standard? I’m skeptical with his decline over the months that it is just an infection as this feels worse but doc’s lack of confidence has me puzzled (and I’ll admit hopeful) it’s something acute. We’re working on a 3rd opinion from another major hospital in NYC but would you go to CHOP or BCH for a 4th? Virtual second opinion not covered by insurance so don’t want to spend $$$$ if not really necessary. Doc wants to start gradually reducing steroids next week and either (1) take them down over 6 weeks and wait and see how he feels or (2) start Remicade to get maintenance in place and officially diagnose as CD as he is fearful if we don’t kiddo will end up back in hospital. Would you start the biologics when docs still aren’t totally convinced it’s CD?? I’m torn to be honest. In my gut I feel we should start the biologics but I have this nagging “what if”. How many opinions do I need? I have a very big job as does hubs and we’ve already missed months of work and chasing down these opinions is time consuming and daunting and adding more stress. But he’s my son so of course I’ll do anything.
please help me off this ledge! I’m so lost with what to do.
Four months ago my kiddo started complaining of stomach pains, had frequent night sweats, stopped eating much and dropped 10-15% of his body weight. Never (and still hasn’t) had diarrhea or bloody stool. After bloodwork showed inflammatory markers, pediatrician referred us to a pediatric GI at top Children’s Hospital in NYC (where we live). More labs done and Calpro > 3000. GI PCR all negative but doc thinks infection. Two weeks pass and he’s better then horribly worse. Son ends up admitted to the hospital where MRE confirms inflammation in small intestine. Colonoscopy is clear/normal but endoscopy shows some abnormalities that are biopsied. Biopsy comes back as not suggestive of IBD or celiac. Calpro drops to 445. Bloodwork all over the place … some stuff better some worse. He’s anemic. New symptoms arise like daily fevers everyday at 4pm and mouth sores. Albumin very low so infused. After another hospitalization and having rheumatology, immunology, infectious disease, hematology and oncology consulted, GI doctors reluctantly decide to do pill cam as they’re still convinced it’s infection. When doc uses scope to insert the pill they notice the abnormalities they saw 10 days before on original endoscopy look better/healed with no drug intervention, so they biopsy again. Pill cam shows scattered lesions in part of intenstine scope couldn’t reach but biopsy of upper area again not suggestive of CD. Doctors don’t want to label kiddo with chronic disease and start meds if they aren’t 100% sure and for them 100% sure is confirmed biopsy. Son is getting worse, constant pain, not eating … he’s now got an NG tube for night feeds to stop weight loss. I beg and they finally agree to prednisolone to help him feel better. But they encourage us to get more opinions to see if others have seen similar cases recently as healing with no drug intervention, improving Calpro (though never normal), lack of confirmed biopsy and no family history make them skeptical it’s CD. So now I have no idea what to believe. Second opinion I get from another large NYC hospital does think it’s CD (all signs pointing that way) though also not thrilled with the missing biopsy confirmation. Steroids working beautifully … eating like a horse, feels no pain, moon-faced and bloated but so much happier and playing and smiling.
so my question, has anyone else’s kid been diagnosed without a confirmed biopsy? Is that really the gold standard? I’m skeptical with his decline over the months that it is just an infection as this feels worse but doc’s lack of confidence has me puzzled (and I’ll admit hopeful) it’s something acute. We’re working on a 3rd opinion from another major hospital in NYC but would you go to CHOP or BCH for a 4th? Virtual second opinion not covered by insurance so don’t want to spend $$$$ if not really necessary. Doc wants to start gradually reducing steroids next week and either (1) take them down over 6 weeks and wait and see how he feels or (2) start Remicade to get maintenance in place and officially diagnose as CD as he is fearful if we don’t kiddo will end up back in hospital. Would you start the biologics when docs still aren’t totally convinced it’s CD?? I’m torn to be honest. In my gut I feel we should start the biologics but I have this nagging “what if”. How many opinions do I need? I have a very big job as does hubs and we’ve already missed months of work and chasing down these opinions is time consuming and daunting and adding more stress. But he’s my son so of course I’ll do anything.
please help me off this ledge! I’m so lost with what to do.