A friend who had a laparoscopic hysterectomy yesterday almost couldn't be revived, BP was dropping and oxygen low, even on oxygen. They had choice of either putting her on a ventilator or giving her narcan to wake her up, which reverses all effects of pain meds, but decided her sleep apnea would probably cause her to die if tried the vent, (her throat must have been narrowing) so narcan it was. Screaming in pain (but better than not breathing) she woke up and had excruciating pain, and muscles spasming for over 11 hours, new pain meds now, of course, not working because of the narcan. When they got her up last night for a walk, all the pain meds hit at once and she collapsed shaking in seizures and hallucinating until she was revived again. Today, thinking things would be getting under control, but now she is bleeding from her incisions and has a blood covered blanket. Haven't heard from them since, wondering if they took her back to surgery. On top of that, it is her birthday and anniversary today, but her hubby stayed home most of day to take care of several kids (including twins) they have, while he is in pain himself from gallbladder attack he had and doc wanted to operate right away because of infection, but they can't have two incapacitated parents (this was even before her complications). He is scheduled for surgery next week. They also have a nephew who is on verge of dying from cancer like illness, and son with muscle disease and another son stung by bee today. They could use prayers.