It's funny how even the ones in your house don't even understand. Doug and I very seldom argue, until health problems on both fronts arose. we learned to keep it to a dull roar, now we are much better at supporting each other. It gets really hard whenwe bothhave no energy at the same time (which is often), but we understand each other better.
Just remember your daughter is still a teenager, no matter what.
That's Harlan and I, he's type I diabetic. So, as it ends up, by the time I blow my fuse with the kids, he is in the mood where he doesn't want to hear the fussing back and forth between them and I. So it winds up getting dropped, just to avoid the fuss.